Yes it's normal but letting go is a choice. You say you're very happy with your husband, well then let go of your ex and focus on your husband. Right now you are focusing on your ex as you haven't let him go, if you do that and decide to really put all your romantic love into your husband you won't miss your ex anymore. I think it's just the common case of the grass is greener, or wanting what you can't have. Happiness should be plenty enough and you say he was your best friend before you married well that makes the two of you a perfect match. You are being very selfish and unfair emotionally cheating on your husband. Really sit down and reflect over what you got and actually feel greatful because you sound very ungreatful for the life that you have. Your ex is just an old infatuation. It is normal to have very intense feelings for your first real love but that doesn't make them the best fit for you.
It sounds like you have a great marriage, many people would be jealous of that and you have no idea what a marriage with your ex would be like. First of all your ex's family does not accept you, obviously, which would already complicate things and he clearly values his family's opinion which means he most likely always will, maybe resulting in him taking their side often and you feeling left out a lot.
Exes are exes for a reason.
IIN to still think about your ex everyday and longing to see him?
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Yes it's normal but letting go is a choice. You say you're very happy with your husband, well then let go of your ex and focus on your husband. Right now you are focusing on your ex as you haven't let him go, if you do that and decide to really put all your romantic love into your husband you won't miss your ex anymore. I think it's just the common case of the grass is greener, or wanting what you can't have. Happiness should be plenty enough and you say he was your best friend before you married well that makes the two of you a perfect match. You are being very selfish and unfair emotionally cheating on your husband. Really sit down and reflect over what you got and actually feel greatful because you sound very ungreatful for the life that you have. Your ex is just an old infatuation. It is normal to have very intense feelings for your first real love but that doesn't make them the best fit for you.
It sounds like you have a great marriage, many people would be jealous of that and you have no idea what a marriage with your ex would be like. First of all your ex's family does not accept you, obviously, which would already complicate things and he clearly values his family's opinion which means he most likely always will, maybe resulting in him taking their side often and you feeling left out a lot.
Exes are exes for a reason.