I guess I kind of do enjoy hold on to my anger. I often feel like the people who made me angry don't deserve to be forgiven. I realize that it only hurts me, but it's a feeling that I find very difficult to let go of. I'm not sure why it's so difficult for me, but it is. I'm working on it letting it go. I just haven't gotten there yet.
Forgiveness is a different issue and personally I don't believe it's necessary to forgive people who do shit things to you. How have you worked on it so far? Longstanding stuff like that is hard to work on by yourself, because I'll bet your family context made you more vulnerable than other kids around you to being picked on and not listened to, or it wouldn't still be affecting you so strongly after so long
IIN to still be bitter about my kindergarten teacher?
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I guess I kind of do enjoy hold on to my anger. I often feel like the people who made me angry don't deserve to be forgiven. I realize that it only hurts me, but it's a feeling that I find very difficult to let go of. I'm not sure why it's so difficult for me, but it is. I'm working on it letting it go. I just haven't gotten there yet.
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Forgiveness is a different issue and personally I don't believe it's necessary to forgive people who do shit things to you. How have you worked on it so far? Longstanding stuff like that is hard to work on by yourself, because I'll bet your family context made you more vulnerable than other kids around you to being picked on and not listened to, or it wouldn't still be affecting you so strongly after so long