IIN to still be bitter about my kindergarten teacher?

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  • bigol'dick
    7 years ago | pl

    I can't really say if it's normal or not, but you sound like me. I have anger issues and am very bad about letting things go.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago | pl

      So how is that improving your life? You can learn to let things go, you know, ever heard of neuroplasticity? Unless of course you enjoy holding on to hold pain, which I reckon is pretty pointless, because it doesn't affect the person who hurt you, only you

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      • bigol'dick
        7 years ago | pl

        I guess I kind of do enjoy hold on to my anger. I often feel like the people who made me angry don't deserve to be forgiven. I realize that it only hurts me, but it's a feeling that I find very difficult to let go of. I'm not sure why it's so difficult for me, but it is. I'm working on it letting it go. I just haven't gotten there yet.

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago | pl

          Forgiveness is a different issue and personally I don't believe it's necessary to forgive people who do shit things to you. How have you worked on it so far? Longstanding stuff like that is hard to work on by yourself, because I'll bet your family context made you more vulnerable than other kids around you to being picked on and not listened to, or it wouldn't still be affecting you so strongly after so long

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      • TheDentist
        7 years ago | pl

        You know. I'd rather have rage and hatred build up inside me than be an poor old woman making a whore of herself for money.

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago | pl

          Ha ha, still at it I see: it must take you ages to type your posts with one hand while you're wanking to the other.

          I'm not poor except financially and we're all entitled to our own choices to survive as long as they don't hurt ourselves or anyone else

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