Is it normal to start despising something you once looked forward to?

My sexual appetites are much broader than my wife's. There's been more than a few occasions where I've requested her to wear certain outfits for me in bed, or requested the use of certain toys, or even asked for something as innocent as a foot rub after a long day.

She would agree, unenthusiastically, of course, but then it would be several months before of waiting and re-requesting on my part before she would finally do those things for me.

The problem is, by then I've grown to despise those things and even hate myself for initially bringing them up in the first place, because she clearly didn't want anything to do with them at all.

Is that normal of me?

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95% Normal
Based on 20 votes (19 yes)
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  • d0esnormalmatter

    The part of this that made any sense at all is normal

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