Is it normal to seek minor revenge in a nonharmful way to someone who wronged u

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Is it normal to seek minor revenge in a nonharmful way to someone who wronged you? Like putting their email on spam sites for treating you badly? Is that wrong to get a bit of revenge in that way? I think it will help me let go and forgive and forget just to get a bit of revenge/closure.

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago | pl

    Sounds petty and childish.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      I don't think it's mature either and yeah it's petty. It's all ID.

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      • charli.m
        7 years ago | pl

        And yet...

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago | pl

          I didn't claim to be mature or unpetty.

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          • charli.m
            7 years ago | pl

            Did I say that you did?

            I'm merely indicating that it makes you even more pathetic that you're aware and yet, you do it.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              7 years ago | pl

              eh ok

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago | pl

    Its OK.

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  • AnxiousPrincess13
    7 years ago | pl

    dont worry, i measure up what the persons done and give them equal revenge. like if they told the whole grade my biggest secret, i would tell the whole grade theirs. which isnt even out of character for me seeing how im so the biggest gossip and i know everything bout everyone.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago | pl

    I understand your urge to get some minor revenge, but eventually the best thing to do for yourself is to just learn how to deal with those types.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago | pl

    Revenge is a waste of time let it go and get on with your life.

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    • bobobob
      7 years ago | pl

      Oh please you try to one up people who disagree with your mean bitch you opinions by making them feel like shit by the way you talk down to them in your superior way. That's a form of revenge you hypocrite.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago | pl

      what about my need for closure? Maybe you're a better person than me... but if a silly little prank gives me peace why begrudge me that?

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago | pl

        You can do it but you asked so I gave my opinion. I don't see how it would give you closure but whatever.

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