Is it normal to regret not having sexual intercourse; being a virgin?

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I was age fourteen when I had my first sexual relationship with someone a year younger than me. We committed all common sexual acts except penile-vaginal intercourse because I feared accidental pregnancy. A decade later, I've never been in another relationship and, I'm still a virgin. I often have sex dreams of what could have been. Thus my regret.

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Based on 43 votes (35 yes)
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  • finn
    7 years ago

    Men are EVERYWHERE. Pick one and make your move.

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    • iForgot_
      6 years ago

      I don't remember my account, but when I asked this question I tried to make my gender as ambiguous as possible to see what kind of comments I would get. As I suspected, all of you assumed I was a girl, but I was actually the guy in this situation.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    You're only 24. Why are you acting like your life is ending? Like I said to a previous person on here upset that he was a virgin at the "elderly" age of 22, he shouldn't sweat about it. As a woman, you can basically lose your virginity to anyone who is willing without much effort. However, you're smart to not want to get pregnant or get an STI/D.

    Go to Planned Parenthood in your area and request birth control information. Read here too: https://bedsider.org/methods Planned Parenthood will set you up with free birth control if you fit the low income requirements, as well as give you free condoms.

    If you if you want to just lose your virginity safely and without the pressure of a relationship, I suggest a Friends With Benefits arrangement: http://m.wikihow.com/Start-a-Friends-With-Benefits-Relationship

    However, choose your guy wisely and make sure he understand your intentions.

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    • iForgot_
      6 years ago

      I don't remember my account, but when I asked this question I tried to make my gender as ambiguous as possible to see what kind of comments I would get. As I suspected, all of you assumed I was a girl, but I was actually the guy in this situation, but thanks for the well thought out reply.

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      • Tealights
        6 years ago

        No problem.

        Normally, only women worry about pregnancy, which is probably why everyone (me too) assumed you were a girl. Men mostly wonder if they have a chance at sex with some hot girl they met a day ago or something.

        It's nice you're worried about accidently making children because it shows you would probably step up and be a good father if you had to.

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  • Drahmin
    7 years ago

    You're a female, and a smart one. No matter what age you are, there will be a selection of men who will be ready and willing to have sex with you. It's nice to know that there are still women out there that respect themselves enough not to just have sex due to social pressures. It will happen when you want it to. Be safe.

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  • Maaa114
    7 years ago

    Penile-vaginal you better be hot or migth not have a choice.

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  • TheMightyOz
    7 years ago

    My life has been a sexual waste. Don't be like me.

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  • NotAgain..
    7 years ago

    This can be easily remedied ;-)

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  • Ghost-of-dreamsao
    7 years ago

    You have plenty of time to lose your virginity. It's not like you're about to die. Just let it happen whenever it happens.

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  • MOFOCOCKSUCKER
    7 years ago

    How old are you ?
    Commonplace talk is a cock and a cunt in everyday life.
    This isnt the medical field , so there is no sense in using cute fancy medical terminology.

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