Is it normal to really not want to judge people but cant help it

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Ill look at some , first look at what there wearing and ill perdict there personal finace and what there life style is like . off those little deatail . and i know its a horrible thing to do but i cant really help it. it probally sounds super shawllow but i cant stop .its like my mind set is on the theory of if the person looks like a bum smells like a bum talks like a bum it must be a bum . eh i hope this kinda made sense...

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  • Your_Neighbor
    13 years ago

    Judging people is a natural thing to do, you do it cus you can't help it, but make sure to not let yourself be based solely on that.

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  • xino00
    14 years ago

    well you'll never find a true friend or love if you constantly keep judging people!

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    • fistpump
      14 years ago

      yeaa i know .. :/

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  • apocryph
    14 years ago

    Everyone is judgemental. We can't help it. Comparisons are natural. Just accept that while you will judge, you will also be judged and nobody (including you) is perfect.

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    Everyone judges and people who say they don't are flat out lying. There is nothing wrong with being judgmental as long as you keep an open mind. Think about the animal world. Animals (like poison dart frogs, for example) use bright colors to tell predators that they're no good to eat. Birds do their little mating dances to impress the ladies. In packs, smaller and weaker animals are sometimes abandoned or shunned from the pack. I mean, these might seem like lame examples, but that's just the way animals judge interaction with each other - on looks or scent alone. The beauty of the human mind is that we're able to rescind on these impressions. I've said it before but I'll say it again. I actually love it when I judge someone prematurely and I'm proven totally wrong. It makes me feel happy to know that people can still surprise me without really doing anything at all. It's kind of a learning experience. Keep an open mind and you may find that you learn even more about some people that way.

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  • Butter_Crunch
    14 years ago

    Probably not wise to do that. Never judge a person by their appearance, you'd be seriously surprised. It's always a 50/50 thing, I have friends who dress like bums but are super rich and I've met unbelievably good looking people who're colder than the north pole.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Sure - you have to make judgments, but you can do so & not be judgmental - by staying open to other possibilities. I have to admit though, if someone actually smells like a bum ... well ...

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