Hun, the 2ND option doesn't make sense. If being gay is supposedly wrong period, getting married won't make a difference. So u have 3 other options: secret sex, coming out as bi, or since ur bi & not gay, just choose a girl! If u do it in secret, u may have to stay in secrecy forever & have ur family wonder why ur not married to someone yet & trust may be broken. If u come out, decide is ur family more important or a guy u may not even keep (as few relationships last)? If ur family would disown u, are THEY worth having forever? Ur easiest route is choosing a girl; otherwise, you must choose who you value the most.
But maybe by waiting till marriage, you mean waiting for a girl & having a traditional marriage like ur family wants. If you choose tradition, you can try experimenting with a guy once or twice. You may find your feelings for a guy are actually just stirred by the Les/gay movement & the curious/us-against-the-world/forbidden love phenomenon & may not be truly bi. But I don't know you, so I can't be the judge here. Just go find out!
My family accepts me as bi.
And I can get married there are gay weddings at our church.
My feelings are real love for my boyfriend. Yeah I don't support the LGBT community because of the useless perades they have. Instead of trying to solve real problems within the gay community.
My family disowned my sister because she had sex when she was 16.
But yeah think I'll wait till I'm married.
In the end I have no idea who'll I'll end up marrying either a guy or girl.
IIN to question giving up your virginity?
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Hun, the 2ND option doesn't make sense. If being gay is supposedly wrong period, getting married won't make a difference. So u have 3 other options: secret sex, coming out as bi, or since ur bi & not gay, just choose a girl! If u do it in secret, u may have to stay in secrecy forever & have ur family wonder why ur not married to someone yet & trust may be broken. If u come out, decide is ur family more important or a guy u may not even keep (as few relationships last)? If ur family would disown u, are THEY worth having forever? Ur easiest route is choosing a girl; otherwise, you must choose who you value the most.
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But maybe by waiting till marriage, you mean waiting for a girl & having a traditional marriage like ur family wants. If you choose tradition, you can try experimenting with a guy once or twice. You may find your feelings for a guy are actually just stirred by the Les/gay movement & the curious/us-against-the-world/forbidden love phenomenon & may not be truly bi. But I don't know you, so I can't be the judge here. Just go find out!
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My family accepts me as bi.
And I can get married there are gay weddings at our church.
My feelings are real love for my boyfriend. Yeah I don't support the LGBT community because of the useless perades they have. Instead of trying to solve real problems within the gay community.
My family disowned my sister because she had sex when she was 16.
But yeah think I'll wait till I'm married.
In the end I have no idea who'll I'll end up marrying either a guy or girl.