You said that you were 'scared' of losing your virginity, that could mean you're not mentally prepared? Are you sure that you, yourself are ready? Once you're sure, then do it. Ignore what anyone else thinks :)
Yeah I'am scared to lose it, and now I'm also even more scared to try and lose it because of my painful experience earlier with my boyfriend.
But I thought as it as irrational fear because of my upbringing in a Christian background, since they view it as a sin outside of marriage.
But I still feel like I'll still fear it when I'm older because I have no experience and I feel awkward getting naked. I don't even change in the changing rooms in school for sports, I use the toilet cubicle.
I don't know if I'm ready emotionally. But I really do love my boyfriend a lot.
I'm also a virgin, so from a sense I get where your coming from. Honestly, everyone is nervous the first time. I think it's great that you're boyfriend will wait until you are ready, he cares and that's what matters. I also have no experience, I relate to the feeling awkward while naked thing. Although i'm like this, I wouldn't be afraid of intercourse if I was sure I was ready and I loved the person. You're boyfriend will wait for you, so you just be yourself. Sex isn't the big thing is made out to be. Remember that the initial awkwardness is something that everyone experience
It's easy for me to say it but don't care about what others think, you'll know when you're ready. The physical pain will be a downside, but if you're too nervous maybe you and your boyfriend could switch sides?
Good luck and I hope you feel better soon:)
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You said that you were 'scared' of losing your virginity, that could mean you're not mentally prepared? Are you sure that you, yourself are ready? Once you're sure, then do it. Ignore what anyone else thinks :)
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Yeah I'am scared to lose it, and now I'm also even more scared to try and lose it because of my painful experience earlier with my boyfriend.
But I thought as it as irrational fear because of my upbringing in a Christian background, since they view it as a sin outside of marriage.
But I still feel like I'll still fear it when I'm older because I have no experience and I feel awkward getting naked. I don't even change in the changing rooms in school for sports, I use the toilet cubicle.
I don't know if I'm ready emotionally. But I really do love my boyfriend a lot.
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I'm also a virgin, so from a sense I get where your coming from. Honestly, everyone is nervous the first time. I think it's great that you're boyfriend will wait until you are ready, he cares and that's what matters. I also have no experience, I relate to the feeling awkward while naked thing. Although i'm like this, I wouldn't be afraid of intercourse if I was sure I was ready and I loved the person. You're boyfriend will wait for you, so you just be yourself. Sex isn't the big thing is made out to be. Remember that the initial awkwardness is something that everyone experience
It's easy for me to say it but don't care about what others think, you'll know when you're ready. The physical pain will be a downside, but if you're too nervous maybe you and your boyfriend could switch sides?
Good luck and I hope you feel better soon:)
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Thank you.
True maybe I'm falling too much into pressure of what should happen in a normal relationship.
Yeah maybe I'll ask him that when the time comes.
I'll wait then, I don't think I'm ready.