Is it normal to only try to hit on married men

I'm an single 19 yo woman and considered attractive and whenever i go for a night in town with my friends , i look for attractive guys to hit on but I only hit on men wearing wedding rings. I've had affairs with several married men and I know that it’s wrong to do it, but being the “secret woman” in a marriage is a real turn on for me.
I make sure that that the affairs are short, so that we don’t get too emotionally involved. I know that I’m a bitch for doing this, but I can’t help it. Is it normal to feel this way.

Is It Normal?
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  • Basically, you're a typical woman; the kind who relies on appearance to get what you want, competitive with other women (which is why getting married men feels good), fear of aging (wrinkles, sagging, and so on), etc.

    Not much we can tell you other than yeah, it's normal, because it's so common for girls to do this (just google search, and you'll see how common this dumb shit is. There are even guides lol). Hopefully, you'll grow out of it before anything bad happens.

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  • So you're a slutty homewrecker. Be careful, because someday you just might meet the wife, and she just might have a gun.

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  • wow you want what you can't have

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  • I'd be careful. Even a short relationship can go haywire. Especially with someone married who is willing to go with others. You could endanger yourself pretty badly one day

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  • Here's a scenario for you - you hit on a married guy and have a brief affair - afterward, you find out the the guy is MARRIED TO A MAN and both are.............SURPRISE!!!!.......H.I.V.+!! Have fun with extremely expensive drugs and weird diseases that rarely occur in humans, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

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  • I'm getting a wedding ring to wear.

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  • its not normal but its pretty fucking cool . married guys fuck you longer , like thee times longer and they dont mind starting over after they finally do cum, you cant wreck a fucked up marriage so thats a total bullshit reason to stop and lastly . more women than men cheat in marriage. women just lie and men brag.

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  • When I was growing up I lost most of my boyfriends to backstabbing friends that stole them from me. So when I got a chance, I had NO hesitation on giving a 'friend' a taste of their own medicine just before they got married. The first fully married man I slept with was one of my 'friends' father. I wasn't really into him. He just came on to me right after I had become fully sexually active and I was now wanting to try sex with lots of kinds of boys and men.

    I mostly went for single guys just older than me and my age, but if an older guy, married or not, asked me out or something, I usually went for it. Younger guys felt more normal but older guys were WAY more creative and bossy in the right ways.

    After I was married a few years, my husband got the hots for my younger sister. Then they started flirting. At first I was alarmed. NORMAL Right? but then later I started getting turned on thinking about it!?

    I didn't mean to but I found myself bragging about my husband to my sister more, and visa versa. How does a good wife tell her sister and her husband it is REALLY ok with her for them to cheat together? I was REALLY mixed up in my head. The more things heated up between them, the more scarce I made myself and stayed busy turning a blind eye.

    I wasn't REALLY unaware. They just THOUGHT I was. I can't explain why, but I was INCREDIBLY PROUD of my husband and happy for my sister. While they were having their affair my husband was the BEST husband EVER! I remember feeling that if this was what it was like to have a cheating husband than I was happy for him to cheat for the rest of our lives.

    I hope that the married men I slept with were better husbands because of it what we did. I think it is normal for us to be attracted to happy husbands.

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    • I admit that I did sleep with him but only ONCE. I told him that we wouldn't talk about it again and that it was a mistake. He still comes round though and we talk and kiss and fool around but I've made it clear that for the reasons you mentioned, we will end it and keep it a secret. He has told me that he's never been unfaithful before and I believe him.

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  • LoL... I know guys who wear wedding rings to the bar to pickup women. Its a game.

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  • You're nothing but a W H O R E

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    • If your a wife then you wives should work harder at keeping your man in your bed

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      • P.S. sjmple as it is: i dont work hard* to keep ma husband but to have a happy life. If he is found cheating on me, then i'll kick him out of our life & make sure 2 of them get married. Period.

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      • Its not jus about bed & sex*
        It's about wrongdoing. Better to take some time and ask your little self if she'd hab been proud to be grown to get fucked by a married man, potentially ruining someon else's family.

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  • people like you are why some single guys wear wedding rings when they go out

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