Yes Ellenna, I think you're absolutely right, 'they can spot people like you and me a mile off'.
I too have learnt some lessons from it, one of them being that some so called 'friends' are all too quick to take advantage of my good nature and my kindness.
However, the error they make is mistaking my kindness and generosity towards them for stupidity.
They may think they are pulling the wool over my eyes, but in actual fact, not much gets past me even though I may not respond immediately or at all.
In hindsight I thought she was manipulative, scheming and argumentative.
I also think she thought that she could hook me in through having sex with her as I've been single for a while, then try to claim some of my assets down the track.
That's my gut feeling about her.
In future, I think I'll have housemates sign a contract!
IIN to not want to continue friendship with a housemate from hell?
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Yes Ellenna, I think you're absolutely right, 'they can spot people like you and me a mile off'.
I too have learnt some lessons from it, one of them being that some so called 'friends' are all too quick to take advantage of my good nature and my kindness.
However, the error they make is mistaking my kindness and generosity towards them for stupidity.
They may think they are pulling the wool over my eyes, but in actual fact, not much gets past me even though I may not respond immediately or at all.
In hindsight I thought she was manipulative, scheming and argumentative.
I also think she thought that she could hook me in through having sex with her as I've been single for a while, then try to claim some of my assets down the track.
That's my gut feeling about her.
In future, I think I'll have housemates sign a contract!
thanks!