Ello every one I think some of you need enlightenment on some subjects before you go off blabbing your mouth.
So for starters trans people are the gender that they portray wether it is “male" to female or “female" to male. Like really what gives people the right to look between a babies legs and say oh that one is a boy or that one is a girl? It really take a special kind of child molester to be so eager to look between there legs.
You know what happens when they look and see that a baby has both male and female genitals or some combo? Well let me inform you they used to go straight lol (see what I did there) to a ruler... Thats right the thing you use to draw a straight line with. Well now they have up dated to using chromosomes and then if it is any thing other then xx or xy its back to the almighty ruler.
Now lets state the obvious
(1) alot of trans people do hide the fact that they had a penis or a vagina. Why? Well let me tell you. First off a lot of trans people females more then males (and when I say female and or male I am referring to the gender they identify with) get beat up a lot even raped and killed, now some of you might think it's funny and dont care but no one care for you eather.
(2) not all of them see a real need to say that they were born with any labels other than the ones they put on them selfs.
But look at it this way they told you, yea maybe a year went by and they hadnt said a word till now. But did they force you to have sex with them? No I dont believe so.
This also brings me to a point were, are people realy attracted to the persons personally or there physical appearance? You say you dated her for a year and had no problems other then no sex life.
You say your parents wouldnt be vary happy with you dating some one who is trans, but why do you have to tell them it ain't any of their business other then shes a girl and you are dating her.
Yes I also understand that you felt as though she lied to you, but she was probably afraid and didn't know what your reaction would be. And she probably was trying to work up the courage to tell you.
And just so you know there are more than just males and females in this world there are intersex people too some one who is born to both male and female criteria such as me I am an xxy chromosome person and so to see you people bashing on people of the lgbtq yet dont know the difference between their face and a hole in the ground.
In all fairness, the OP's issue is slightly more important than liking or disliking a person's physical appearance!
The fact that this relationship has progressed for 12 months and actually has them living in the same house says a lot about the OP and how he wasn't looking for a quick fuck. That said, it IS normal for people to desire sex with their partner - otherwise there wouldn't be a human race! While I understand that there are a wide range of "Intersex" conditions, expecting everyone to just "ignore" the equipment their partner was born with is just plain stupid. Some of us, myself included, can not get aroused at the thought of sex with a woman who has a penis.
You will note in my earlier post, I suggested that one option for the OP would be to enquire if his girlfriend was intending on having gender reassignment surgery. Not that I can say from experience (having never had an Intersex/transsexual girlfriend), but if I had an emotional bond in this situation, it would be something I would need to know before I decided on pursuing the relationship further or terminating it.
Now I'm anti-label, but for the record I wouldn't call a male in a relationship with an Intersex (or transsexual) person who identifies as a woman "gay", or "bi". If they can overlook the physical similarities between their genetalia and those of their partner, good for them. I couldn't do it, and I'm sure I'm not alone.
Not wanting to have sex with a woman who lacks a vagina, or who has an appendage visually identifiable as a penis, does not make me homophobic, or transphobic, or bigoted. I don't want to eat shit, or fuck a horse either, and most people would regard that as perfectly normal.
I'll support your right to be whomever and whatever you choose to be, and will do so until you deny me the same right of free choice. Equal rights for all also means the right to chose to say no.
True I just got eeally angry at other post that were posted and the bashing. Yes I agree that every one has a choice but there is a right and wrong choice that varies from person to person and that can end some ones life. Not that I would be the one to kill some one unless they bashed on some one and I was next to them then thats their fault.
But I suppose I shouldnt let it affect me cuz I have no control of other people.
IIN to not want to be with my girlfriend anymore?
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Ello every one I think some of you need enlightenment on some subjects before you go off blabbing your mouth.
So for starters trans people are the gender that they portray wether it is “male" to female or “female" to male. Like really what gives people the right to look between a babies legs and say oh that one is a boy or that one is a girl? It really take a special kind of child molester to be so eager to look between there legs.
You know what happens when they look and see that a baby has both male and female genitals or some combo? Well let me inform you they used to go straight lol (see what I did there) to a ruler... Thats right the thing you use to draw a straight line with. Well now they have up dated to using chromosomes and then if it is any thing other then xx or xy its back to the almighty ruler.
Now lets state the obvious
(1) alot of trans people do hide the fact that they had a penis or a vagina. Why? Well let me tell you. First off a lot of trans people females more then males (and when I say female and or male I am referring to the gender they identify with) get beat up a lot even raped and killed, now some of you might think it's funny and dont care but no one care for you eather.
(2) not all of them see a real need to say that they were born with any labels other than the ones they put on them selfs.
But look at it this way they told you, yea maybe a year went by and they hadnt said a word till now. But did they force you to have sex with them? No I dont believe so.
This also brings me to a point were, are people realy attracted to the persons personally or there physical appearance? You say you dated her for a year and had no problems other then no sex life.
You say your parents wouldnt be vary happy with you dating some one who is trans, but why do you have to tell them it ain't any of their business other then shes a girl and you are dating her.
Yes I also understand that you felt as though she lied to you, but she was probably afraid and didn't know what your reaction would be. And she probably was trying to work up the courage to tell you.
And just so you know there are more than just males and females in this world there are intersex people too some one who is born to both male and female criteria such as me I am an xxy chromosome person and so to see you people bashing on people of the lgbtq yet dont know the difference between their face and a hole in the ground.
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In all fairness, the OP's issue is slightly more important than liking or disliking a person's physical appearance!
The fact that this relationship has progressed for 12 months and actually has them living in the same house says a lot about the OP and how he wasn't looking for a quick fuck. That said, it IS normal for people to desire sex with their partner - otherwise there wouldn't be a human race! While I understand that there are a wide range of "Intersex" conditions, expecting everyone to just "ignore" the equipment their partner was born with is just plain stupid. Some of us, myself included, can not get aroused at the thought of sex with a woman who has a penis.
You will note in my earlier post, I suggested that one option for the OP would be to enquire if his girlfriend was intending on having gender reassignment surgery. Not that I can say from experience (having never had an Intersex/transsexual girlfriend), but if I had an emotional bond in this situation, it would be something I would need to know before I decided on pursuing the relationship further or terminating it.
Now I'm anti-label, but for the record I wouldn't call a male in a relationship with an Intersex (or transsexual) person who identifies as a woman "gay", or "bi". If they can overlook the physical similarities between their genetalia and those of their partner, good for them. I couldn't do it, and I'm sure I'm not alone.
Not wanting to have sex with a woman who lacks a vagina, or who has an appendage visually identifiable as a penis, does not make me homophobic, or transphobic, or bigoted. I don't want to eat shit, or fuck a horse either, and most people would regard that as perfectly normal.
I'll support your right to be whomever and whatever you choose to be, and will do so until you deny me the same right of free choice. Equal rights for all also means the right to chose to say no.
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True I just got eeally angry at other post that were posted and the bashing. Yes I agree that every one has a choice but there is a right and wrong choice that varies from person to person and that can end some ones life. Not that I would be the one to kill some one unless they bashed on some one and I was next to them then thats their fault.
But I suppose I shouldnt let it affect me cuz I have no control of other people.