Yeah I agree but I'm just trying to respect her because I don't want to come off as transphobic.
But I find the whole transgender thing really confusing. I see it as someone who wish they're born as the opposite gender not identifying as it. Because I don't understand how you can be a girl unless you get surgery. But still they won't get periods or have the ability to have a kid.
Don't worry about coming off as transphobic. The fact is you were lied to. Lying about something so big is a very shitty thing that any human could do, (transsexual or not).
Mine lied about period pains, so I'd go buy her pads. That's another thing that pisses me off. Even in the middle of the night when I have work next morning.
I thought it was normal for trans to tell people their biological sex to their close circle of friends?
And I never thought I'd even meet one since they a minority. I have the worst luck...I though he was a girl but he's not.
No more like a girl like this. But sounds really feminine.
If someone takes hormones at a young age it's hard to tell. They dong go through male puberty.
but honestly its just reality. if he's a dude then he is. im not gonna sit and pretend its a girl when he has a penis lol
depends lol but in a relationship of my own of only a week or so, it'd be done haha
it's because they're confused. it's either their hormones messing with their minds, or they just want a clever excuse to be the opposite sex lol
its pretty simple to me though, you got a dick your a guy
exactly and thats the number one thing id probaley have a problem with, if i had a kid i would want to have my own genetics and hers, so it probaley wouldnt work out
im sure its hard on ya, i think the question you gotta ask, is how much you love her?
Yeah I agree, its just so confusing now how you can be something you weren't born as. And pretend you're the natural thing. And laws are letting this pass and even handing out hormone therapy to them.
Don't think I love her/him enough. After I found out about that huge lie.
See I probably can't let the pronoun go because I've been calling him a her for a whole year. But in my mind I feel like I'm living with a stranger now...
yea because Obama is corrupt and is trying to screw with our society. If he got shot I wouldnt care. In fact Im sure many people would be going out to dinner to celebrate lol
yea, well since you dont love him, i think it's time to dump him lol
get yourself a REAL girl ;)
one that actually has a vagina lol
wow a whole year? damn
well nows a better time than never, you could be like "get out of my house dude" lol
Yeah I checked the bill that was passed. Seems like a loop hole since the only way to identify as transgender is word of mouth. Since we can't physically see feelings.
And it's even for sports sororities and housing... Do people even know why we separate sex in sports, sororities and housing. Some girls don't want to share a house with a guy and sports will be unfair(look at the male records compared to female), and there's no way to tell if their genuinely transgender.
Yeah your right, I'm going to leave him and tell him why. And hopefully he will understand what he did was really wrong.
I turned down actual girls while dating him thinking he was fully one.
thats true, but i think most guys do it because they're just pervs lol
thats also true lol so yea pretty much any person who puts on a wig can pretty much go just in any bathroom they want
n obviously thats not how its supposed to work
n i dont care if he passed that stupid bill or not, that shit is NOT going down
exactly its just common sense that guys have more physical strength! lol
yea some transgender people are good at hiding it, look at yourself lol im surprised you didnt notice
n thats the main reason why people dont want guys in girls bathrooms, is because some girls feel uncomfortable, we should be supporting the MAJORITY of people, not the weak minority of like 2% of people who think they're the opposite sex lol
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Yea you gotta stop saying "she" now that you know its a dude lol
"She" can pretend to be a girl all he wants, but with a penis, he's just a dude with some makeup
Depends though on how long you've been going out, and how much you love "her".
If you really love him then you could wait to try and get his penis removed.
But if that happened to me, I just dont know what I'd do lol
If I was going out with him for like a week though, I'd probaley have no problem dumping him
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Yeah I agree but I'm just trying to respect her because I don't want to come off as transphobic.
But I find the whole transgender thing really confusing. I see it as someone who wish they're born as the opposite gender not identifying as it. Because I don't understand how you can be a girl unless you get surgery. But still they won't get periods or have the ability to have a kid.
Yeah I'm stumped on what to do.
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Don't worry about coming off as transphobic. The fact is you were lied to. Lying about something so big is a very shitty thing that any human could do, (transsexual or not).
I've known MTF trans who say they have PMT and periods and one who said he was pregnant, which is of course all about self-delusion.
Not wanting to be with someone who lied to you about something so basic doesn't make you transphobic, it just makes you liephobic.
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Mine lied about period pains, so I'd go buy her pads. That's another thing that pisses me off. Even in the middle of the night when I have work next morning.
I thought it was normal for trans to tell people their biological sex to their close circle of friends?
And I never thought I'd even meet one since they a minority. I have the worst luck...I though he was a girl but he's not.
Ha I guess it does.
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does he look like this?
http://bilerico.lgbtqnation.com/2011/01/ariabellows.jpg
XD haha
like this is a boy?!?!?
http://www.theprovince.com/life/cms/binary/10053378.jpg
thats like rare as hell lol to look that good
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Nah looks like Blair white.
Petit and feminine. By the help of female hormones he took to stop his male puberty.
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oooo whos this blair white? hold on
the football guy? XD hahaha
or the tranny girl? damn if it was the tranny girl, that looks pretty real >.>
i might get confused too lol he mustve looked pretty good
so he wants to have a small dick? lol
next time see if he has big hands or feet, that could be a sign haha
see if he looks like bigfoot just coming out of the woods lol
wow that must be some pretty damn convincing makeup lol
i think i would be able to tell a trans person, there are ways to tell
shoulders, adams appple, buldge
im suprised you didnt notice for a whole year lol
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https://i.ytimg.com/vi/XAVdYzkUN58/maxresdefault.jpg
No more like a girl like this. But sounds really feminine.
If someone takes hormones at a young age it's hard to tell. They dong go through male puberty.
lol yea i understand you wanna respect him
but honestly its just reality. if he's a dude then he is. im not gonna sit and pretend its a girl when he has a penis lol
depends lol but in a relationship of my own of only a week or so, it'd be done haha
it's because they're confused. it's either their hormones messing with their minds, or they just want a clever excuse to be the opposite sex lol
its pretty simple to me though, you got a dick your a guy
exactly and thats the number one thing id probaley have a problem with, if i had a kid i would want to have my own genetics and hers, so it probaley wouldnt work out
im sure its hard on ya, i think the question you gotta ask, is how much you love her?
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Yeah I agree, its just so confusing now how you can be something you weren't born as. And pretend you're the natural thing. And laws are letting this pass and even handing out hormone therapy to them.
Don't think I love her/him enough. After I found out about that huge lie.
See I probably can't let the pronoun go because I've been calling him a her for a whole year. But in my mind I feel like I'm living with a stranger now...
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thats all they're doing, is pretending lol
yea because Obama is corrupt and is trying to screw with our society. If he got shot I wouldnt care. In fact Im sure many people would be going out to dinner to celebrate lol
yea, well since you dont love him, i think it's time to dump him lol
get yourself a REAL girl ;)
one that actually has a vagina lol
wow a whole year? damn
well nows a better time than never, you could be like "get out of my house dude" lol
thats what i might say haha
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Or they think they're actually a girl.
Yeah I checked the bill that was passed. Seems like a loop hole since the only way to identify as transgender is word of mouth. Since we can't physically see feelings.
And it's even for sports sororities and housing... Do people even know why we separate sex in sports, sororities and housing. Some girls don't want to share a house with a guy and sports will be unfair(look at the male records compared to female), and there's no way to tell if their genuinely transgender.
Yeah your right, I'm going to leave him and tell him why. And hopefully he will understand what he did was really wrong.
I turned down actual girls while dating him thinking he was fully one.
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thats true, but i think most guys do it because they're just pervs lol
thats also true lol so yea pretty much any person who puts on a wig can pretty much go just in any bathroom they want
n obviously thats not how its supposed to work
n i dont care if he passed that stupid bill or not, that shit is NOT going down
exactly its just common sense that guys have more physical strength! lol
yea some transgender people are good at hiding it, look at yourself lol im surprised you didnt notice
n thats the main reason why people dont want guys in girls bathrooms, is because some girls feel uncomfortable, we should be supporting the MAJORITY of people, not the weak minority of like 2% of people who think they're the opposite sex lol
have you seen the target boycott?
https://www.afa.net/action-alerts/sign-the-boycott-target-pledge/
and the dumbass CEO is refusing to change the policy. well if he wants to lose money, thats not on me lol
damn right he should understand that shit, he's gotta understand not everyone is gay
:o what lol, well like you said, you didnt know he was gay so eh
but now maybe you can get those girls back! ;)
good luck dude, i believe you're making the right choice