Is it normal to not want meaningless sex?

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So recently I met a girl I knew in highschool and we are old friends if you can call 6 years old. So we meet up and things get hot and heavy, we end up having sex like 7 times. But the thing is a\we have always like each other so I wasn't looking for meaningless sex.

Thinking about it now, I have never had meaningless sex with someone. It is not that I am not attractive, when I go to bars or clubs I usually hit it off with at least one girl but I never take it to that next level.

I am very good at sex as well, Ive been with 6 women and have made them all squirt and can make love for hours so theres no apprehension in dealing with my abilities.

Is it normal that I do not look for meaningless sex?

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago | pl

    ^true. My friends bag on all the time about "not getting any". The importance of it to me was for it to be worthwhile. Not just to do a "wam, bam, thank you ma'am" and not see the girl ever again.

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  • BigREDgrin
    12 years ago | pl

    so here is an update, went out and had meaningless sex and it was disappointing. Maybe I'm a bit of a softy or whatever but if there is no future or feeling behind the action its like whats point.

    Doubt I will do that again.

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    • Tisgranum
      12 years ago | pl

      Why force yourself to do something both dangerous and meaningless plus no fun to you?

      Many people who are will respect your choices.

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  • Aleks85
    11 years ago | pl

    Easy sex is boring sex. I like to go with girls who make me earn it.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    If you where talking to me with "what do you mean", you should have used the reply button as I can't be sure.

    What I mean is that it's totally acceptable and I was being ironic. Then, there's also the angle where a men should always be up for sex. It's not true that all men are but women don't take no for an answer very well.

    It's perfectly ok and I highly respect people who don't want meaningless sex but, for a man, it's not always appreciated.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago | pl

    No, it's unacceptable.

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  • BigREDgrin
    12 years ago | pl

    what do you mean

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