Is it normal to not to want stepkid around fiancee's strange cousin?

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He is weird and I don't want my stepkid to be weird.
I don't even like my fiancée's weirdo cousin in our driveway, let alone our house.
When I insult him or try to fight him, he just ignores me or laughs in my face. He hides from me or ignores my texts when I call.
He is wayyy past middleage and lives with his elderly mother.
I don't think he works , but he says he does.
His mother asked me to stop making fun of him on twitter.
He smells even though he says he just bathed. Even though we are not married, My fiancée is cool and says yes to whatever I decide.

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Based on 9 votes (2 yes)
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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    Apart from the fact that you say he smells, nothing else indicates he's weird. You sound like the weird one to insult and try and fight him for no reason. It also sounds as if you have your fiancee under your thumb if she's leaving it up to you to decide who her child has contact with.

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  • Mehereok1
    5 years ago

    If he's only weird to you and not anyone else, you can't really keep him from family. If he's an oddball to others, though, I'd have no problem with that. I also have a not so much weird, but, heavily and overpoweringly annoying cousin (he's never changed..always been like this) that people find hard to take.

    It was one thing when my ex-wife and I were around him, since she was used to him, but, since my divorce and dating, yeah..I'm way careful with who I bring around. One, he's obnoxious, and two..I don't want whomever I'm dating's view of me to have anything to do with him..

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Go eat some dog shit.

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