Is it normal to not tell a friend he's being creepy with the bar girls?
One of my guy friends and I meet up at a sports bar once or twice per week, sometimes along with another 1-2 guys. It's fun, we talk, eat, and have a few drafts. The place hires, no surprise, younger, beautiful, hot females as servers and hostesses, and they come and go. Bartenders have been there for years, and everyone knows them.
We all look at the girls, no question. I do, too. My one friend, though, looks, makes comments to myself and them, usually very sexual and sometimes bordering on vulgar, and really eyes them up, top to bottom. He's old enough to be their father, by far, and comes off even to some other guys as a creeper around the girls. I've had a few stop to chat with me while he's been in the men's room, and ask things like, what's with him, he creeps me out, please don't leave or get up when he's talking to me, and one who flat-out said, she won't stop by to chat if he's sitting next to me.
He's not a bad guy otherwise, but when he drinks, does treat these young girls like a piece of meat, and they notice. Is it normal for me to hold this in and not tell him, hey, leave the girls alone, you're creeping them out (and making me look bad)? He needs to hear this in some capacity, so the girls won't be as uncomfortable around him...They're tired of the comments, sexual innuendo compliments, occasional hand kisses..Just all of it.