Is it normal to not like oral sex?

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I'm female ad I just don't enjoy it all that much but my boyfriend is constantly asking. It's the only way I get to cum, but I'd rather just take care of myself if that's the case. It's not like he's bad at it, in fact he's been improving all the time. I just don't like to do it, especially 69ing. He's constantly trying to get me to sit on his face and I hate it, it just makes me feel nervous rather than feel good.

He always wants to and when I refuse, he is always making comments about how I am the only girl in the world who doesn't want to be eaten out.

IIN?

Is It Normal?
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  • rockycruz
    8 years ago | pl

    It's a self conscious thing. Personally, if you was with me and you tell me, then I'd not have a problem with it. I'd think you might be self conscious of your own body and maybe slowly try to help increase your confidence about yourself, your body but I wouldn't push you to do it. However, I'm different. My girlfriend loves women too and other girls like me eating them out while making love to them both but still, if both are not liking, which I never had such problem but if so, no problems.

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    • cocoapeaches
      8 years ago | pl

      Hate to say it, but you are pretty correct on that account. Never considered it being me stopping myself from enjoying it, but now that I think about it, yep.

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  • johnho
    8 years ago | pl

    All I can say is he isn't doing it right. I was told I should give lessons, by a woman..

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago | pl

    I don't like talkin during the nookie either...

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago | pl

    I understand about this, most guys I know haven't been that keen on giving oral but they love getting it. I think most girls are self conscious about getting it but if he is eager to try, maybe give it a try. Especially if the only reason is because you feel worried about what he will think. If you end up not liking it tell him but Id give him a chance.
    If done well oral sex is great but if not it can be...awkward.

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    • sexcrazed1975
      8 years ago | pl

      My wife and I both love oral. She likes to cum by rubbing her pussy all over my face. concentrating on my nose. I love the taste of her pussy. She loves giving me head and swallowing. I think you should try a little harder if you love your husband. Maybe ask advise from some of your close friends both sexes. Good Luck!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      He's done it before, he does it well. I just would rather not be bothered. But you are right about the self consciousness playing a big factor. Thanks!

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      • wistfulmaiden
        8 years ago | pl

        If you take a baths few times per week it probably will make you more confident. I like to keep my hair trimmed but it's up to you about that.

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    • gloryholeflasher
      8 years ago | pl

      Giving oral to my wife is my favorite sexual activity. I almost always make her cum, and I love doing that to her. Sometimes I cum the same time she does. Most of the time after she cums she climbs on top and we cum together. If I couldn't perform oral on her we would probably stop having sex completely because I enjoy it that much. Strangely enough, she has NEVER performed oral on me. I've often thought I should stop eating her out to induce her to reciprocate, but I know her and I know that wouldn't work, and I would only be punishing myself by depriving myself of the most pleasurable sexual activity we have.

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    8 years ago | pl

    You have a big problem.

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