Is it normal to not know how to forget him?

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here it goes.. Were classmates, Four years straight until now in fourth year high school. In our room, im kinda loner,i want to be alone than to be with someone else.And now in fourthyear, one day I just woke up and realized i like him.. my feelings started 5 months ago when he join a competition.But, He's also a loner too..among my boy classmate's, he's the most silent,he doesn't talk too much and not so close with the others except with the boys..my problem is, I just cant get him off my mind. and i think i love him.yet i know we can't be together,never i guess..He doesn't even talk to me nor glances at me and i feel so sad.. snd im kinda jealous of some girls in our room.i want to forget him cause i dont want to get hurt anymore..i really want to get over with him.but how can i?when everyday I could see him? and that's what make my heart aches much..i want to forget him ! pls HELP ME!!

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  • sullenjean
    11 years ago | pl

    ..nahh..wont work with my friends..even with my classmates..they'll shower me with mockery..

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  • Dad
    11 years ago | pl

    Why can't you be together 'never' with this boy?
    It comes down to do you want to try and talk to him? Or don't you?

    Even if you don't want to even try for some type of GF / BF relationship, maybe you could try to just be his friend, again you will need to approach him though, even if you write a small note and give it to him directly.

    By the way 'Love' is two way, to love someone means they love and respect (and trust etc etc etc) you back, so before rushing over and screaming out I love you, maybe just talk to him first.

    By the way, boys at the same age as girls tend not to be as mature, so its up to you to make the first move.
    Good luck, let us know the outcome.

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    • sullenjean
      11 years ago | pl

      ..thanks for that comment DAD ..i really appreciate it..but I dont have the guts to come and talk to him yet i really want to..im a girl who's really not used to get along with others except my close friends.even if i know him for four years.still im not that brave to talk nor make friends to him ..but i'll try ..thanks a lot ! GOD BLESS and more power !

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      • Dad
        11 years ago | pl

        Tell your friends, and ask one to approach him for you.
        That seems about normal these day, and it works too.

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