Is it normal to not know each other but still love each other?

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I feel like my bf and I don't really know each other that well. We have been dating for almost 2 years. We kind of have the same personalities and get along here and there, but sometimes when we start arguing, we realize its mostly cause we misunderstood each other. I dont know if hes being sarcastic or hes serious but he tells me that I "scare him" like a "psycho" you know like one of those crazy bitches and Im just like dude...I dont know if you're joking or you're serious. At the end of the day, he has the wrong perception of me. But then its possible for me too, to not exactly know him. When I confront him about things Im not happy about, he comes off as shock like he wasn't aware he was doing something wrong or however I describe him he says its not true and I dont know him. So its weird its like we don't know each other that well I guess but its almost like we still like each other. Is this bad or good? Is it normal?

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  • Freedom_
    7 years ago | pl

    If you don't now him by now, you will never ever ever ever know him.

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  • TheHighFlyer
    7 years ago | pl

    This is normal. Women often overanalyze or read their own meaning in to what men say and do leading to misunderstandings. Not all women do it, and there are some men that do it to, but in my experience women do it a lot more.

    Just look at this site, there are lots of posts about "my boyfriend said or did this, what does it mean?", and not nearly as many of those from guys.

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    • LittleGirlCallouslySodomized
      7 years ago | pl

      What women really want on this site are mainly two things. #1 Someone to talk to eg an emotional rag. #2 Reassurance.

      The "guys" that do it aren't Men and most likely a (fill in the blank x-sexual). There is no Man that behaves in a way in which you would describe as a "guy" on this site. With that in mind, thank you for calling them "guys" however I think you may be more correct calling them an "it"

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      • TheHighFlyer
        7 years ago | pl

        I wasn't really talking about guys and girls on this site I was talking about guys and girls in general. I was thrm in general. I was just using some of the posts here postee by females as an example of what I was talking about.

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago | pl

    I don't understand how you could not know someone afger two years :/

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  • TheDentist
    7 years ago | pl

    If you don't know him, how is it possible to love him?

    I honestly don't understand this whole "love" thing.

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