Is it normal to not have sex with a girl after she says she is a virgin?

i was at a Halloween party with my brother and his friends, my brother is a senior in high school and I already graduated college, but I look young so everyone probably thought I was in high school. There were some cute girls there, one girl in particular was being a total cook tease and flirting with all the guys, she gave off the impression of being very sexually experienced. She didn't give me a second glance while she was sober, but when she was under the influence of alcohol, I was somehow able to convince her to join me upstairs for some fun. Now don't get me wrong, she was smoking hot, with a gorgeous face and banging body, and she was clearly way out of my league, which was why I considered myself in that moment to be so fortunate as to have the opportunity to get intimate with her. But I also assume it was her first time being drunk, because she was being brutally honest, to the point where I actually started caring about her, as an actual person. In what was so drastically contrary to her initial character of being bold and confident, when she was alone with me she revealed her insecurities and poured out her sorrows from the heart. She confessed that her parents divorced when she was young and that it still hurts her, that one of her closest friends died in a car crash last year, and that she is a virgin. The last comment shocked me because it felt so out of place compared to the sexual, alluring, and desirable vibe she was giving off earlier. I mean, I'm a virgin too, but in my case that's understandable. But for her, she was young, beautiful, smart, had lots of friends, came from a rich family, and had her whole life in front of her, with lots of great experiences and memories awaiting in her future. It just felt wrong at that moment to even think of taking advantage of her. After she made herself so vulnerable to me, I couldn't see her as the sexy teen anymore but as a young girl who was lost and confused. And that's when I knew that she deserved better. I wanted her first time to be special with someone who she really loved. I realized that the only thing that prevented me from having sex with her was because I loved her and cared about her more than I thought of my own selfish desires.

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  • Redcoats

    You did the right thing in the end mate.

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  • Hog

    Because your a fucking cocksucking sap!!

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  • gloryholeflasher

    That's not what I would consider normal at all. I would call that very admirable!
    You reap what you sow in life and if you can forsake your own pleasure in order to do what's best for someone else then you are surely bound to have a good life. I'm happy for you and the girl!

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    • TheDentist

      He shouldn't be thinking about teenagers in a sexy way. That's extremely creepy and illegal.

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  • peterrabbyt69

    You should have eaten her sweet, young cunt and then fucked her doggystyle after she sucked your cock and you blew your load in her mouth.

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  • Carlton03

    You definetely did the right and moral thing, I'm like you, I'm a virgin and I'm no major rush to have sex, I mean who gives a damn shit? It's just some stupid act, I'm proud of what you did bro, very easy to let hormones take over in a situation like that, well done!!! And don't listen to these stupid immature homophobic fucks on here!!! There just crazy sex obsessed maniacs and need to change their stupid attitude towards sex to be honest

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  • bigol'dick

    You did a good thing. Even though I don't know you, I'm proud of you! Good going!

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  • iloverape

    Sounds like you're a big faggot

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  • Jazyritz619

    You did the right thing! :)

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  • Gelmurag

    I think you did a good job resisting.

    However, in this case, you never once mentioned you got her age. Which considering nothing happened can still be slippery, because unless you stayed with her all night and protected her, you might be the one she remembers even if another guy got involved after you. Which brings me to a second point. Since you started to feel some caring for this girl, will you be there at the next party to stop her from doing it with someone else so her first time can be special? What about the party after that? I think your next step is to try to start a relationship with her in an effort to protect her. I mean you care for her right? So why shouldn't you be the special person to take her cherry? Those other guys at others parties won't care, and it won't be special. Step up and take responsibility.

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