Is it normal to not feel different toward the person who took your virginity?

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I lost my virginity around a month ago. The guy had a girlfriend but I've honestly been...idk I'm to young for love, but I've liked the guy for over a year. Anyway, month ago we had sex...I'd snuck out really because I wanted some vodka he'd boasted about (I come from a strict, christian family, I wanted to live a little) afterwards I honestly didn't feel any different. When I woke up the next morning....it just seemed like a dream. I even snuck out within the next two days and tried again. The only thing I feel like is a whore but that's something I've been feeling before. I don't feel different...or any of those feelings toward him. It changes nothing from what I felt toward him before. I just feel like I should be feeling...SOMETHING. IIN?

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago | pl

    I dont think its weird at all, everyone places a different value on virginity - I didnt feel different after loosing mine either. I think I was more relieved because it was over with - all this stress about it. You might look back and regret it - I do a bit now (Im 26 now and was 15 when I lost it), but at the time, It didnt affect me either way.
    I think it would be cool to loose my virginity to the guy I'm with now, (the right guy) because its sorta like a gift I could give him...... but how would I have met the right person if I didnt have trial and error?

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  • YumInsanity
    11 years ago | pl

    Do you feel any different after you take a shit? Sex is equally as meaningless and far less rewarding, you shouldn't feel like you should feel something just because you feel like you should

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  • Ihateveryone
    12 years ago | pl

    Its normal must of the people do this and feel nothing.

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  • Normallyabnormal
    12 years ago | pl

    That is totally normal and kinda a blessing. So many people start to develop strong feelings after sex, and make the relationship into something more than it is. Consider yourself lucky that you're not like that, and make sure your being safe.

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