My mistake! I thought you wrote the other post because of your comment on it, but that was me connecting dots incorrectly :/ sorry about that. I feel dumb now.
My point still stands about not misleading the man who loves you, though.
Also, independence and self-sufficiency are great. And if you are in no way emotionally dependent on others, that's fair enough. Most of us are dependent on others to some extent, for our psychological wellbeing. I'd probably go mad if I was permanently alone, and I doubt I could find happiness if I never felt loved.
You may well be different. Or you may well not realise how you'd feel without love, since you have a guy who loves you "with all his heart". Or it could well be your depression and CFS speaking. You know better than we do.
IIN to not be affected by love anymore
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My mistake! I thought you wrote the other post because of your comment on it, but that was me connecting dots incorrectly :/ sorry about that. I feel dumb now.
My point still stands about not misleading the man who loves you, though.
Also, independence and self-sufficiency are great. And if you are in no way emotionally dependent on others, that's fair enough. Most of us are dependent on others to some extent, for our psychological wellbeing. I'd probably go mad if I was permanently alone, and I doubt I could find happiness if I never felt loved.
You may well be different. Or you may well not realise how you'd feel without love, since you have a guy who loves you "with all his heart". Or it could well be your depression and CFS speaking. You know better than we do.