I don't know if it's your depressive tone but you do sound like a selfish, petulant teenager. It doesn't really sound like your doing anything productive. Your depressed and you need to sort that before your life is just an empty black abyss of miserable nothingness. Good luck.
Depends what you call productive. I mean a tangible end result for one's efforts, something to show eg knowledge, an article etc. That's not selfish, that's self responsibility.
It might not be possible for you, but other people manage it. You don't have to pour all of your time and effort into your relationship, just enough of it.
Try doing it with chronic fatigue syndrome and menstrual cycles that wipe me out every month! Time and energy is at a severe premium. I literally get wiped out for several days being around people for even a short time. Literally, no energy to give- or receive- with. And yes, I've tried fixing them- spent 30 years trying to with no success!
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I don't know if it's your depressive tone but you do sound like a selfish, petulant teenager. It doesn't really sound like your doing anything productive. Your depressed and you need to sort that before your life is just an empty black abyss of miserable nothingness. Good luck.
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Depends what you call productive. I mean a tangible end result for one's efforts, something to show eg knowledge, an article etc. That's not selfish, that's self responsibility.
Who can do anything productive whilst in a relationship? It's impossible with other people around!
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Something productive to do in a relationship? I thought that was obvious, reproduce... Or have fun trying!!
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Not in your late forties it ain't!!!
It might not be possible for you, but other people manage it. You don't have to pour all of your time and effort into your relationship, just enough of it.
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Try doing it with chronic fatigue syndrome and menstrual cycles that wipe me out every month! Time and energy is at a severe premium. I literally get wiped out for several days being around people for even a short time. Literally, no energy to give- or receive- with. And yes, I've tried fixing them- spent 30 years trying to with no success!