Is it normal to never want a husband or kids?

I may sound like a nun. But I never want to have kids or get married. I just want maybe kids as animals and to be focused on school, wishes/career, and my relatives. Is that good or bad? (never been in relationship)

Is It Normal?
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  • Its totally normal..your not the only one lol. You dont have to get married or have kids but it.might be good to get out and socialize with boys..maybe meet someone.you might like that might change your mind and make you want to get married or have kids one day..there is no need to rush. :) this is coming from a girl

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  • Nothing wrong with making that choice its your life.

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  • You sound young (since you referenced focusing on school), there's nothing wrong with not wanting kids when you're young. I'm confident that will change in a few years though, you're biologically programmed to develop the urge to reproduce, some people never get that urge and it's fine, but speaking from my own experience: every girl I grew up with and told me they never wanted kids ended up changing their mind and having kids (and it made them happy).

    I encourage you to focus on your career though, a man and babies can come later once you are independent and financially self-sufficient.

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  • Never had sex? That's horrible. Try it a few times. Especially oral sex.

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  • Why not ?
    Dont you like men or sex ?

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  • Maybe you are a lesbian (woman attracted to other women), which is fine and perfectly normal. Pick the woman of your dreams and have a happy life.

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    • I'm striaght. I've had crushes on men and only men. But I've never been in a relationship or have wanted one.

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    • There's also something called an asexual person, if you've ever heard of it. And people can be straight without wanting sex with other men. It's a normal thing.

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