Haha, holy shit! You're the girl who was talking about getting drinks spilled on her by her date in another post! :D
I don't think its bad that you haven't had sex in a 4 year relationship at all, respectable even. I just hope you have good reasons for it. For example my ex was terrified of it hurting but actually had a pretty shallow attitude towards sex. I would have found it more respectable if she was following a belief or was happy about staying a virgin for the time being. But instead she would suggest getting wasted and doing it, so that she didn't have to remember her first time. Seemed like a pretty unhealthy outlook on it to me.
Lol. XD It's actually a bit of a sore subject for me. Not exactly sex but in general sexual activity. >.< We did try a few times but he was just too nervous to go through with it for numerous reasons and I didn't want to make him if he didn't want to. Now we don't even do anything with each other. After 7+ months (probably longer -_-) even I can't help thinking if there's something wrong with me that my boyfriend doesn't even want to flirt back with me when I make attempts. I can only take rejection for so long =..o
hey ur bf may be asexual i am and thats what it sounds like to me most asexual's dont want anything to do with romance or sex then their are some like me who dont mind cuddling were just not into sex i would look it up http://www.asexuality.org/home/
:O Been there! My ex, at one point in our relationship, lost her libido entirely. It was stressful. I felt very rejected and uncared for. Especially since she was such a flirty person, yet wouldn't even touch me for months on end :\
IIN to never have sex in a 2.5 year relationship (both virgins)
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I never have either in a 4 year relationship. I'm 21 too. Dang we're losers huh? ;)) jk
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Haha, holy shit! You're the girl who was talking about getting drinks spilled on her by her date in another post! :D
I don't think its bad that you haven't had sex in a 4 year relationship at all, respectable even. I just hope you have good reasons for it. For example my ex was terrified of it hurting but actually had a pretty shallow attitude towards sex. I would have found it more respectable if she was following a belief or was happy about staying a virgin for the time being. But instead she would suggest getting wasted and doing it, so that she didn't have to remember her first time. Seemed like a pretty unhealthy outlook on it to me.
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Apologies in advance it's a rant. :)
Lol. XD It's actually a bit of a sore subject for me. Not exactly sex but in general sexual activity. >.< We did try a few times but he was just too nervous to go through with it for numerous reasons and I didn't want to make him if he didn't want to. Now we don't even do anything with each other. After 7+ months (probably longer -_-) even I can't help thinking if there's something wrong with me that my boyfriend doesn't even want to flirt back with me when I make attempts. I can only take rejection for so long =..o
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hey ur bf may be asexual i am and thats what it sounds like to me most asexual's dont want anything to do with romance or sex then their are some like me who dont mind cuddling were just not into sex i would look it up http://www.asexuality.org/home/
:O Been there! My ex, at one point in our relationship, lost her libido entirely. It was stressful. I felt very rejected and uncared for. Especially since she was such a flirty person, yet wouldn't even touch me for months on end :\