Is it normal to never get over someone and regularly feel suicidal about it

why cant i get over this girl i got with (literally ages ago)

its getting to the point where i cant stop thinking about her sleeping with my best friend after getting with me.

i constantly feel like shit about it.

how can i numb myself to certain thoughts?

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  • Well happened to me for many yrs. But can tell u what I did to get over it: look for her, talk to her, face ur fear to her and tell her what or how do u feel about her. No matter what is gonna be her answer or reaction, I can tell you for sure that after doing that you will feel a lot better. I did.

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  • It'll fade in time. Just try to thinkof other things

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  • Many have been there and know your exact situation and feeling of hopelessness without her.
    TIME
    Meanwhile don't kill yourself. When I least expected it I fell in love again.
    And now, karma is a wonderful thing because she became really fat, broke, lonely, got malaria then dangi, mother developed kidney disease and now desperately wants to back. Like hell! I spent months getting piss on my balcony contemplating jumping torn apart cos She got pissed off because I didn't buy my condo in her name and wanted 100Gs to come home.
    She has even suggested sharing, having 2 women. Black mailing bitch.
    The thing is mate, don't be an idiot over a girl and kill yourself. Look at my story, what makes a man so blind crazy over a such a gold digging Jezabel? In time you will see nearly again, but for little baby assorted cheeses sake, give yourself time.

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  • Watching a movie about war or something instantly makes me feel ashamed for considering suicide. The stuff people have to go through in life is too much. I know that doesn't mean much now though. I'm sorry man I know how you feel.

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  • So have you done it yet? Tell us, this last command has e very good point.

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  • When it comes to suicidal thoughts... I always have to think about how much worse life could be if we were in other parts of the world and fighting for scraps of food... Then, killing myself over a relationship seems pretty crazy. It will fade in time, things could be SOOO much worse for anybody who can afford to be using this app...

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  • @revelry I have to disagree there. I suggest talk about it to someone you trust. Rather get it out then have the sorrow all for yourself.

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  • Yeah that shit sucks i can totally relate, even after having many relationships i still find myself depressed about one from 4 years ago. It gets better with time tho,just keep her off your mind.

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  • that sucks dude! the only advice i have is not to talk about her to anyone. then maybe you'll think of her less and stop thinking about her all the time.

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