Totally normal, but you can always go to a gynaecologist to get checked if you’re really concerned. It can get worse on a lot of types of birth control as well. One pill brand I tried totally dried me up and I had to use lube. But the problem persisted, albeit became less of an issue, after I switched to an IUD. I legit tried so many things and different brands of lube to get myself wet and nothing was working until I stopped rushing with my partner and made him spend more time on foreplay until I felt like I was really really ready to start. Sometimes you just need to give yourself time and don’t feel pressured to start sex early because the guy you're with is wanting to rush into penetration (if he doesn’t listen to your needs after you voice them, move tf on because he’s not worth your time). Also BE CAREFUL what type of lube you use with condoms. Water-based or silicon (never use silicon lube with silicon sex toys, it will ruin the toy) is safe because it won’t cause the condom to break. Oil-based lubes will break the condom.
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Totally normal, but you can always go to a gynaecologist to get checked if you’re really concerned. It can get worse on a lot of types of birth control as well. One pill brand I tried totally dried me up and I had to use lube. But the problem persisted, albeit became less of an issue, after I switched to an IUD. I legit tried so many things and different brands of lube to get myself wet and nothing was working until I stopped rushing with my partner and made him spend more time on foreplay until I felt like I was really really ready to start. Sometimes you just need to give yourself time and don’t feel pressured to start sex early because the guy you're with is wanting to rush into penetration (if he doesn’t listen to your needs after you voice them, move tf on because he’s not worth your time). Also BE CAREFUL what type of lube you use with condoms. Water-based or silicon (never use silicon lube with silicon sex toys, it will ruin the toy) is safe because it won’t cause the condom to break. Oil-based lubes will break the condom.