Is it normal to make dummy accounts and argue with relatives anonymously?

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Just a short story.

I am just an introverted woman who belongs in an extended family (I live with my relatives). I was raised in a Christian family, but most of my relatives, especially my aunts and cousins, act like hypocrites at many times. They love gossiping or judging other family members and people in a very rude way. Being a neutral person, I hate to witness this shitty, hypocritical acts. Their attitudes leading me to become more agnostic or eventually making me feel like I just don't want to attend in church with them anymore.

Until one day, I got fed up. They were talking about me for not being religious or cold to my family. I gave them the reasons and confronted them in proper way about how they act, but they just got mad at me because they don't want to be corrected by me. "We are older than you, and we know better," they said. (LOL I'M ALREADY 25)

I don't want to argue with them in person anymore. It was so tiring and bullshit. They don't even consider your thoughts and insights. So, I made many dummy accounts to ruin their day by spreading their secrets anonymously and ruining their reputation online. I send them profanity messages and whenever they panic in chats and asking who I am, I get entertained and feel this relief. I think I could do this always every time they act like shit again.

SO, IS IT NORMAL? OR I'M JUST A LITTLE BIT TOO MUCH IN HANDLING MY ANGER?

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Based on 19 votes (7 yes)

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LornaMae

4 years ago

Girl, I'm sorry but you sound like you're 12, not 25... :/

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  And I am sorry about that. T.T
  
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  - LornaMae
    
    4 years ago
    
    Sorry, I dunno what T.T means. I can't tell if it's insulting or complimenting. I assume it's the former. Anyway, get away from them or anything that causes you to feel such revolt.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      T.T is a common Japanese emoji of crying. Sorry for confusing you. Anyway, thank you very much for the comment.
      
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      - LornaMae
        
        4 years ago
        
        Seriously? I would never have gotten "crying" from "T.T" haha
        
        Don't cry. Be yourself.
        
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        Soph1931
        
        4 years ago
        
        T.T is crying because the top of the T is the eye, and the line going down is tears, and the dot is a mouth.
        
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bigbudchonga

4 years ago

This is pretty bad. I thought making up accounts to have a go at them was bad enough, but to make accounts and then attack them with private information you know, and to go about spreading their secrets in an attempt to ruin their reputation is fucked up to do to anyone, let alone your family.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I thought so, too. I don't know how to explain it more clearly how my relatives act, but I just can't help it. I am a patient and neutral person until they pushed my limit. Anyway, thank you for the comment. I'll think about it.
  
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  - bigbudchonga
    
    4 years ago
    
    That's okay, man. I hope you find a less underhanded way of releasing your anger at them. I get that for an introvert this could be very hard to do, and frankly, from the way you describe them, you're anger is justified, and so is some form of blowing off that anger, but I would put your mind towards finding a new way of doing it that isn't this underhanded and sinister
    
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chuy

4 years ago

LMAO!

I would have done the same...but I would say it to thier face.

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ellnell

4 years ago

That's pretty childish, even if your family is bothering you.
Just cut ties with them if it's that bad, or don't talk things you disagree on with them when you see them. I wouldn't waste my time on doing this, do something positive with your time instead and be happy and let them sit in and be bitter and judgmental. Don't stoop to their level.

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SunSnow

4 years ago

They'll catch you be smart.

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Clunk42

4 years ago

This breaks more than one of the Ten Commandments.

It breaks "12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee."

And "16 Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour."

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- McBean
  
  4 years ago
  
  So what? The OP is saying she doesn't give a shit about your Christian opinions. Just one other question for you. Why would the Lord, thy God give a fucking shit about IIN? We are all heathens, and we like it that way.
  
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  - Clunk42
    
    4 years ago
    
    OP would care because OP is Christian, they said themself.
    
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    - Clunk42
      
      4 years ago
      
      And how do you know who OP is?
      
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      - Clunk42
        
        4 years ago
        
        Sorry. I misread it as saying "I am just an introverted Christian."
        
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- charli.m
  
  4 years ago
  
  Yes because everyone in the world follows your religious beliefs...and morals can't exist outside of it.
  
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  - Clunk42
    
    4 years ago
    
    Well, OP claimed to be Christian, so it applies.
    
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    - Clunk42
      
      4 years ago
      
      Sorry. I misread it as saying "I am just an introverted Christian."
      
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        4 years ago
        
        That's fair enough. We all misread sometimes.
        
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- d0esnormalmatter
  
  4 years ago
  
  Man I wish I could downvote right now
  
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  - Clunk42
    
    4 years ago
    
    Why? OP's Christian, so these apply.
    
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    - d0esnormalmatter
      
      4 years ago
      
      Because your assuming OP has the same beliefs as you.
      
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      - Clunk42
        
        4 years ago
        
        Sorry. I misread it as saying "I am just an introverted Christian."
        
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SomewhereNorth

4 years ago

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SomewhereNorth

4 years ago

Can't tell if you're actually 25 or if English isn't your first language. Anywho, you do you, even if that means making bullshit accounts and trolling your family or whatever. Just please, fix your grammar.

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d0esnormalmatter

4 years ago

Not the best way to handle it

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raisinbran

4 years ago

I encourage this, but don’t let them trace it back to you. Gossip is childish and evil... maybe this will teach them to be more civil.

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charli.m

4 years ago

"Neutral person"

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XYXY

4 years ago

You are 25, you’re an adult, who gives a shit what you and your extended family think of each other. Just stay away from them if you don’t get on. Why bother with church if you’re not religious. You need to move out of their house and make your own life away from them. Making stupid accounts and spreading stories about them, whether they are true or not, is pathetic and childish.

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