Is it normal to lose virginity at 13?
Honestly im 19 now and ive always had mixed feelings about it, and its always been 50% , 50%.
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RandomNumbers
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[Old Memory]
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TerriAngel
Your body knows.
Its never wrong.
thats why age related laws make no sense.
Ive known 15 year olds that practice safe sex.
and seen 30? On maury trying for paternaty tests.
whos the responsible adult?
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Dot123
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EchoMaster
Yes, but I don't think it's something worth spending much time regretting. Just not a good idea in general. Worry about the decisions you make regarding sex going forward.
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teendicksuckers
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Maxandme
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bobia_borupski
when i was 13 after school me and my now husband bole went to this shack in the woods called the butt shack and we fucked for 6 hours straight and smoked the devil's lettuce
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shade_ilmaendu
It's pretty young, and I'd worry someone at that age isn't really ready to accept all the risks that come with being sexually active in an informed manner.
BUT virginity is kind of an overrated concept anyway, the only real reasons to wait are to make sure that you're ready to experience that level of intimacy with somoene and that you're ready and able to know how to protect yourself from unwanted consequences like pregnancy or disease.
You mentioned neither of these in your post above so I'm guessing you avoided those things - if so that's wonderful. I would never advise someone to start that young but it's good that you were either smart about it or else lucky and had no long lasting consequences.
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LuxM4G
It's normal, if either your a girl or a boy. I lost mine at fifteen which is the average in my country, it was dreamlike, very romantic. Of course that it depends on your background, and the circumstances of how it happened, but it's perfectly okay. I wish i could have been sexually abused by a hot teacher in elementary school, that would have been nice.
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RoseIsabella
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101714
I lost mine at 14 and I still look back. I question myself and I feel like I was too young at the time to be doing such things. But I don't hate myself for it or anything. I just question my actions.
13 is honestly a little too young, but it's the past. You can't change it. Don't self-shame yourself for losing it at 13. As long as you knew what you were doing (or at least a little bit) and practiced safe sex, you're good.
All I could think about for a year after was me losing it at 14. I would get filled with so much shame. I had no one to talk to about this, so I was totally alone. Telling my friends would mean I would be shunned out of the group, so I kept this all to myself. Honestly, it was too much pressure for a 15 year old.
Don't push yourself too hard about it. The past is the past, leave it behind. Reflecting on it is just going to make it harder for you.
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Kirsten100
It's very young, 13 year old girls are just not emotionally mature. Even one that's emotionally mature "for 13" is not by adult standards. That said, it's in the past. Move on,
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Anonymousssssssss
First of all your not 19 because why would you ask such a specific age number... aaanyways I think it is normal but dont get pressured into it just let things happen and make sure you have a condom because even though it’s normal to loose your virginity it’s not normal to have a baby
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NothingbutFireflies
That is actually pretty young, but I guess that different people mature at different ages.
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Ummitsme
Totes depends on your emotional maturity level and how much you trust your partner. Still pretty young though.
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JonathanOo
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Anonymousssssssss
As a feminist that’s sexist for you to even bring up gender because boys fuck anyone they want whenever they want but all of the sudden when it’s a girl we are labeled as sluts and whores and thots and easy
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Kevinevan
Really? As a guy I can fuck anyone I want? Damn, I needed to know this information a LOT sooner.
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LuxM4G
Some rebellious morally anarchist women just can't put through their thick skulls that certain passages of rite are different for men and women. Women are supposed to treasure their virginity and avoid being promiscuous, while men have carte blanche in western society to lose their virginity earlier and have multiple platonic sexual relationships. I'm not even a conservative, au contraire, but it's common logic. If i was a woman i wouldn't be a slut, but i am a man so i have a looser moral leash.
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Kevinevan
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LuxM4G
I completely understood what you meant, i just intended to elaborate a counter response to what the feminist claimed. Men and women are different inside the cultural and social scheme of behaviors and costumes. I'm all for equal rights, but that's a whole other ball game, this is about principles, ethics, morality. We have an external sex organ with a lot more sex drive, averagely speaking, they are internal and can function longer without sexual activity, some don't even manage to achieve an orgasm. As many as one in every three women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex. And as many as 80 percent of women have difficulty with orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone.
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JonathanOo
(Anonymous) I don't f whoever I want and nor do I want to. I think you missed my point? I didn't label you a sexist, or a whore, or a slut. Im not criticizing you for what you want or believe you can do with your body. I'm telling you what I would prefer, whether I'm a guy, girl or trans. I prefer to WAIT. It's a personal decision because of what I've been through and I would've liked to have lived with fewer regrets
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yumri
really if you were older like 30+ then yes but in the last decade or 2 morals changed and now it is not not normal to see women who have babies at 18
yes babies meaning more than 1 but the norm for that is around 1 at 18 another at 19 then stopping or continuing on that theme until 25 with the same man as when they are 25 they usually find out that having 5+ babies is hard to manage even though their entire day is taken up by them taking care of their own babiesComment Hidden ( show ) -
[Old Memory]
14 is very normal and a good age to start, if you're a girl. 13 seems a bit young.
Guys should be older than the girl though.Comment Hidden ( show )