Is it normal to like your best friend even though she has hurt & lied to you?

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My best friend and I hang out a lot in school and out of school. We are really close and can take to each other about anything. We both know we like each other but are afraid to go into a relationship in case it makes us more distant as friends. She has told me numerous lies which has hurt me so many times emotionally. So is it normal to love her and what should I do?

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  • cup.of.tea
    12 years ago | pl

    Awesome. Thank you guys so much, you have helped me so much. Thank you. (L)

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  • -Smallz-
    12 years ago | pl

    You cant help your feelings mate, you can only cope with them,Its down to you how you deal with this situation. it doesn't matter what other people over the internet say what they would do... I think you really need to think hard about if you really want to be friends or have a relationship with someone who is willing to lie to you even if it means hurting you,

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  • blndgrl18
    12 years ago | pl

    Well, if she has lied to you numerous times about things that hurt you, then she is not girlfriend material. Obviously, she doesn't take your feelings at face value, so I wouldn't waste any time on trying for a relationship. If she's lying now, she'll definetely lie in a relationship, which will make you feel even worse.

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