Is it normal to like someone online and then hate them when you see them?

At my school there is a boy who is albino. I can spend hours online talking to him, and he's a really good friend of mine. I just can't seem to talk to him when we're at school. I don't know if it's because i tell him a lot of personal things about me (like what my fears are, and if im having arguments at home etc). I just really can't stand him when i see him in person. I don't think it's because im shallow, although he's not like the rest of my friends. My best friend doenst like him, but that's because she went out with his best friend and he gave her a lot of stick for it when they broke up, so maybe that influences me? He's a nice guy, but i just can't seem to get on with him in person. He really annoys me - especially his voice. Maybe i only like him online as he's like a diary - someone i can spill my feelings out onto, without thinking he's a real person. Should i stop talking to him online? Or make an effort to talk to him at school (i've tried before and just felt really uncomfortable and awkward, coming away with the feeling that i should stop talking to him online)? Or remain as I am?

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 7 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • Is it too late to reply to this? Haha. I just wanted to say I have someone like that too. Except he's not albino, he's just ...an unpopular...kid. I've learned that I like him for him, and he's become my best friend. Actually, he's exactly like the character Duckie in the movie Pretty in Pink. In every extent.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Your not a bad person, you just don't want your closer friends to be upset with you for talking to someone who is friends with one if your friends x. Trust me I get it, but even a simple hi in the hall ways between classes wouldn't hurt.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • it's bc you're a bad person

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • i bet ur actualy on friends with him online but never actualy been friends with him online happened to me but at the end i jus went wit the flow nd started chattin to em

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Yeh "nopenotnormal" is right. it's cruel in some way. or be with him friends IRL and online or don't be friends with him at all.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Aw, poor albino. You should be his friend both online and IRL. It isn't very nice of you to be this way toward him. If he's really great at listening to you and is a good friend to you, you should reciprocate. Suck it up and be nice :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )