Is it normal to kinda want sex, but not want to put any effort into getting it?
Like ya know ( or maybe you don't) I feel like I want to have sex sometimes but the idea of going through the trouble of finding a girl i'm attracted to, taking her on dates,maybe buying her a few things, open up emotionally with her, telling her stories of life, listening to stories of her life, ect. ect .. E>C>T.. just doesn't feel worth it sometimes.
sometimes it just comes your way and you find a great lover and the effort doesn't feel like work because you have love, other times it just feels like so much effort... maybe I'm just lazy, like its not thAt much effort... but it commonly feels to be enough to make me feel like "eh...i don't really need to have sex rn or maybe ever again " is it normal