Is it normal to keep myself away from stimulating things since i hate sexdrive?

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Is it normal to keep myself away from stimulating things since I don't want to get attached to people, I don't want to try with people, and I hate the urge when it just wont go away and it drives me insane.

I always have and most people are not entertaining enough for me to try. I have before but it was with people I didn't like so I felt ok doing it since I didn't get a lot of stimulation from it. I wont do it with someone who really turns me on since than the want to be with someone I find utterly disgusting.

I do read and watch perverted stuff but it more often turn me on if its masochistic/sadist stuff. Im kind of strange though and I don't think doing it with an unwilling participant is alright.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago | pl

    I'm Misanthropic myself but even I can find people that I want to get involved with.

    You seem to be very confused, or at least your post is.

    The whole deal with S/M is that all participants are willing and it is all an act and a play that is supposed to be nice and fun for all participants.

    If you put yourself out there you can find playmates for sex only if you dislike deeper relationships.

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  • painisweakness
    9 years ago | pl

    OP is probably asexual. 100% normal. Do what you want and have fun! No need to have relationships and crap when you don't want to.

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  • Creativeusername29
    9 years ago | pl

    So why have sex with someone you don't like and don't enjoy sex with ?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      To pretend Im normal like everyone else and that I actually care.

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  • Wuggums47
    9 years ago | pl

    I think you have to realize that it's not healthy to hold up all of your desires like that and just pretend they don't exist. You must have something going on mentally that makes you like this, and I reccomend seeing a sex therapist, because this could pose a problem for you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    Sounds like you've got more issues than National Geographic.

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