Iin to invite a stranger 2 pleasure u without seeing or talking to them?

Well if it's an issue of characters allowed (I've been there)

Perhaps try like
"Is it normal/cheating if you blah blah blah" etc or just "is it cheating if..." And then when ppl read you're inquiring about they know what the main question is and can give you a better idea/answer the IIN question at the bottom more accurately 👍

Hope this helps and good luck with your future endeavors. :)