Is it normal to hope that a revenge baby is miscarried/has complications?

Before you start going mental on me about how cruel I am, I believe that there are plenty of mothers with some or all the conditions mum has that are doing the utmost they can and are raising wonderful children.

Plus:

I *KNOW* ***FOR A FACT*** it's a revenge baby because the mother (A girl from my year at school) told me herself that she was having it to get back at her boyfriend's ex.
She is 12 weeks pregnant and boyfriend - who it belongs to - is basically scum, as far as I can tell.
He's hit her while she's pregnant and generally comes across as an utter prick. Even on Facebook, and I've never spoken to or seen him in my life.

She has trichilomania [hair-pulling problem, however it's spelt]and ADHD; maybe OCD and/or depression as well.
She's 23, but acts like a child when she or something related to her is criticised and called another pregnant girl - who is younger than her(!!!) - a baby because the other girl might have a C-section rather than a natural birth... or something. Basically, she can be very vicious when she wants to be and has always been unpredictable.

I sometimes find myself thinking of and worrying about the baby and how shitty its upbringing will be, unless mum pulls herself together and gets rid of nasty boyfriend.

However, IF the baby is born, I guess she's going to allow the father into its life (Understandable, I think).

I feel horrible for thinking this way and I'm well aware of karma coming back to bite me in the ass.

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  • i didnt read your horrible story, just the title. you are a malicious and terrible person. wishing anything bad on someone will come back 3 fold on you, just remember that.

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    • I know about karma and how horrible I am already, thank you. See the following, taken from the story:

      "Before you start going mental on me about how cruel I am, I believe that there are plenty of mothers with some or all the conditions mum has that are doing the utmost they can and are raising wonderful children. "
      And what did you do? Go mental on me!

      ALSO, right at the end: "I feel horrible for thinking this way and I'm well aware of karma coming back to bite me in the ass."

      Seeing as you're too narrow-minded and lazy to bother reading the whole thing, I shall summarise it: A girl I know is having a baby with a really nasty boyfriend, who beat her up while she was pregnant. She is childish, aggressive and behaves in a very ghetto way AND SHE TOLD ME HERSELF that the baby was to get back at nasty boyfriend's ex, who I know nothing about.

      I worry about how bad the baby's upbringing will be and - HORRIBLE AS IT IS - hope it ends up not being born so it doesn't have to deal with those kinds of parents.
      I have been nice to her and tried to make her see how evil her boyfriend is but she refuses to listen.

      I am considering blocking and deleting her as I have had enough of her ways.

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