Is it normal to hope that a revenge baby is miscarried/has complications?
Before you start going mental on me about how cruel I am, I believe that there are plenty of mothers with some or all the conditions mum has that are doing the utmost they can and are raising wonderful children.
Plus:
I *KNOW* ***FOR A FACT*** it's a revenge baby because the mother (A girl from my year at school) told me herself that she was having it to get back at her boyfriend's ex.
She is 12 weeks pregnant and boyfriend - who it belongs to - is basically scum, as far as I can tell.
He's hit her while she's pregnant and generally comes across as an utter prick. Even on Facebook, and I've never spoken to or seen him in my life.
She has trichilomania [hair-pulling problem, however it's spelt]and ADHD; maybe OCD and/or depression as well.
She's 23, but acts like a child when she or something related to her is criticised and called another pregnant girl - who is younger than her(!!!) - a baby because the other girl might have a C-section rather than a natural birth... or something. Basically, she can be very vicious when she wants to be and has always been unpredictable.
I sometimes find myself thinking of and worrying about the baby and how shitty its upbringing will be, unless mum pulls herself together and gets rid of nasty boyfriend.
However, IF the baby is born, I guess she's going to allow the father into its life (Understandable, I think).
I feel horrible for thinking this way and I'm well aware of karma coming back to bite me in the ass.