Is it normal to have sexual conversations online with other than your bf / gf?

Alright so a bit of background story here:

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and I dont think he's ever cheated on me (at least I hope not). He's usually very respectful towards me and I don't think he talks to women online very often.

A few days ago I found out a document he had saved about a conversation with a girl on omegle that NOT ONLY turned VERY sexual, as he also wanted to add her and get a picture from her. He gave her an e-mail adress to where she could send this picture and even suggested talking on Skype. He also didn't even mention that he has a girlfriend

I confronted him about that, he apologized and deleted the document but obviously my trust on him is broken and I just cant think about him as the good boyfriend I've always considered him to be and I don't even know if this was an isolated case. I'm afraid in case he ever does that again because I am not sharing my boyfriend! If he wants to behave like a single dude then he should be single.

I don't find it normal, but I've done it once 2
I don't find it normal, but I've done it more than twice 7
I find it normal when the relationship with my SO isn't that serious 4
I find it normal and do it often / A lot 6
I don't find it normal, never done it and consider it as cheating. 20
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Comments ( 8 )
  • Handyman

    Only normal if you don't plan to meet up. But it is very exciting...

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  • violetkitten96

    Honey, This is, hands down, cheating :/ Make no exceptions :/ NO ONE deserves to be cheated on and I'm sorry that you went through this, but I'd get rid of him and find someone worth your time before you get too settled :)

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  • ßrokenAngel

    You are driving away the good women for nasty fat ugly jacked up looking bitches and therefore causing us to want to KILL a BITCH

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  • ßrokenAngel

    Therefore making us feel like damn I guess I am not good enough for you and I am not what you want so WTF am I here for MEN STOP THE HOEISH HOMEWRECKING BULLSHIT

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  • ßrokenAngel

    Making us feel like hell if she's more important than why am I even here here is the bottom line MEN ARE PIG'S they say they are faithful and loyal but every time a nicer piece of tits and ass come across Facebook or any social media pages it's his face buried in the FUCKIN computer or phone to some nasty hoeish homewrecking slut

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  • ßrokenAngel

    I have seen and read messages that still make me sick and feel like nothing but your absolutely right because of the bullshit the trust is GONE

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  • ßrokenAngel

    I have been there done that with several other ex's NOTE KEYWORD EX online homewreckers don't know know boundaries however my situation was with one of his EX'S therefore made things more complicated

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  • dicka912

    Chatting with another about sex on-line is no big deal if you will never with that person.

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