While it is perfectly acceptable to have different standards for yourself, to call someone else a slut for choosing to sleep with someone sooner rather than later is not. What is right for you is not right for the rest of the world, or do you believe all people need to have the same moral standards as you do? If so then I beg you to take a step back and consider how boring the world would be if there were no diversity.
Now with that said, being free with your sexuality is not being a slut, for neither a man nor woman. Not everyone holds some belief that sex is some magical thing only shared between people who have been together x amount of time and have done a, b, and c first to prove that theyre not a "slut".
Religion plays a big role in this mindset, and it seems that while people turn away from religion more and more frequently, they still hold on to archaic ideas perpetuated by the very thing they now abhor. Sleeping with someone after 2 days or a week or even a night does not have to correlate with low respect for oneself. If they want to connect in a physical way, then by all means let them.
I do agree that this girl doesnt seem like she should be having sex, but thats kinda beside the point here, as I'm remarking on your judgement of this kind of behavior.
IIN to have sex with a boy after two days of knowing him?
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While it is perfectly acceptable to have different standards for yourself, to call someone else a slut for choosing to sleep with someone sooner rather than later is not. What is right for you is not right for the rest of the world, or do you believe all people need to have the same moral standards as you do? If so then I beg you to take a step back and consider how boring the world would be if there were no diversity.
Now with that said, being free with your sexuality is not being a slut, for neither a man nor woman. Not everyone holds some belief that sex is some magical thing only shared between people who have been together x amount of time and have done a, b, and c first to prove that theyre not a "slut".
Religion plays a big role in this mindset, and it seems that while people turn away from religion more and more frequently, they still hold on to archaic ideas perpetuated by the very thing they now abhor. Sleeping with someone after 2 days or a week or even a night does not have to correlate with low respect for oneself. If they want to connect in a physical way, then by all means let them.
I do agree that this girl doesnt seem like she should be having sex, but thats kinda beside the point here, as I'm remarking on your judgement of this kind of behavior.