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Im 18 and i just got a new boyfriend two days ago and i barely know him and said"hey wanna fuck tonight?" i did not no want to say! What should i do?
tell him oky and but first you need to get a new gag and whip, cause the last ones got to soaked in blood
It's normal if you're a slut.
A person who doesn't know the difference between "no" and "know" shouldn't even be considering having sex.
If a guy had sex after knowing a girl for 2 days...would you call him a whore? It's her body and her choice, I would advise protection as others have done.
And what the hell has spelling got to do with emotional and physical maturity?
Actually yes, I would call that guy a womanizer or manwhore but that's me.
Yes it's her body, but the question is if she should or shouldn't.
Protection if she should but if she wants to have a long loving relationship, she shouldn't with a guy who wants sex immediately.
Spelling is often linked to intelligence, therefore a person who doesn't know the difference between "know" and "no" probably doesn't have the capacity to think coital sexual relationships through.
And I'd call him a manwhore. Promiscuity has nothing to do with sex, if a man or woman sleeps with someone after two days of knowing him he/she is promiscuous or a manwhore/slut.
Who says spelling is linked to intelligence? And since when has common sense had much to do with intelligence? Some of our most famous geniuses have had dyslexia. Ridiculous assumption for anyone to make, plus it could have been a basic mistake if they didn't go back and re-read it.
As for having sex with someone within 2 days of knowing them, that's their choice. Not mine admittedly but still a choice. They may feel very comfortable with that person in a short space of time and have a 'connection'. Or they may not be looking for anything serious, just some fun (as long as they are safe).
While it is perfectly acceptable to have different standards for yourself, to call someone else a slut for choosing to sleep with someone sooner rather than later is not. What is right for you is not right for the rest of the world, or do you believe all people need to have the same moral standards as you do? If so then I beg you to take a step back and consider how boring the world would be if there were no diversity.
Now with that said, being free with your sexuality is not being a slut, for neither a man nor woman. Not everyone holds some belief that sex is some magical thing only shared between people who have been together x amount of time and have done a, b, and c first to prove that theyre not a "slut".
Religion plays a big role in this mindset, and it seems that while people turn away from religion more and more frequently, they still hold on to archaic ideas perpetuated by the very thing they now abhor. Sleeping with someone after 2 days or a week or even a night does not have to correlate with low respect for oneself. If they want to connect in a physical way, then by all means let them.
I do agree that this girl doesnt seem like she should be having sex, but thats kinda beside the point here, as I'm remarking on your judgement of this kind of behavior.
depends if you're into it. If you aren't, give him the bird and walk. If you are, hell yeah. spread 'em and take one for the team! don't let fear drive you OR dissuade you.
You never know what's going to happen in life. Maybe he does care for you, maybe not. The better question is what do you want?
Alright listen up! Think about it, don't allow others opinions affect your decision. Do you want to fuck? If so, use protection and have fun :P otherwise just say it's too early or something. End of discussion.
he isn't a good boyfriend from the start. guys dont consider you a girlfriend in two days either.
Um, no. At least wait until you've known him a bit better and go to college. If you do it anyway, but don't use protection you could end up pregnant. There are so many things you should stop and think about carefully.
There's no right or wrong answer. do what YOU feel comfortable with. It's your body. xx
What are u thinking bitch?! Spread ur cunt, put his thing in urs and then end up with the white magic inside ur cunthole! It will be fun baby!
(I have a lot of experiences with my girlfriend)
In Europe it's normal. I always had sex on day one with all precious gf's. I don't know how certain people can date for months and still not have had sex. That's totally weird to me.
I've been living happily together with a girl for years and she took me to bed the same day we met (which was also great.) :)
If you like him its very wrong because he will think of you as a slut. I have slept with girls after knowing them for 3 hours & i consider them all "Just a Fuck".
A girl that takes her time & has pride in herself is very sexy.
It's normal I had sex with my fiance the 1st time we ever hung out now I'm happily engaged. It doesn't always mean he wants to use you. People are dumb. Go for it if you feel comfortable
Wait you barely know him and he's already your boyfriend. Girl say no and move on
No, not at all! It makes you look like a cheap h**, and since I'm going to be nice and say you probably aren't one, you may want to not try things like that, it'll honestly be more rewarding to wait even a week lol.