Who says I am not important, my husband values my views and appreciates what I do. I never said I am treated like a servant or some form of 2nd class citizen. I do all that I do because I want to, as I mentioned before he would help if I asked but I don't ask. I am proud of my house and like to do things the way I want them done. I am also proud of my husband and want to make him happy. I obey because if we disagree over something and can't find mutual ground there are only 2 choices, to keep fighting and arguing or for one of us to concede the argument and back down. I will choose to be that person as I trust him and love him. In a work place a boss or supervisor will make the final decisions about things, doesn't mean the rest of the workforce are second class or are not important or are not respected. I think men have a greater need to be in control, it's in their competitive nature, probably something to do with testosterone levels. I don't have that need, I get far more satisfaction from making him happy than I do from winning an argument.
IIN to have old fashioned views about male and female roles
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Who says I am not important, my husband values my views and appreciates what I do. I never said I am treated like a servant or some form of 2nd class citizen. I do all that I do because I want to, as I mentioned before he would help if I asked but I don't ask. I am proud of my house and like to do things the way I want them done. I am also proud of my husband and want to make him happy. I obey because if we disagree over something and can't find mutual ground there are only 2 choices, to keep fighting and arguing or for one of us to concede the argument and back down. I will choose to be that person as I trust him and love him. In a work place a boss or supervisor will make the final decisions about things, doesn't mean the rest of the workforce are second class or are not important or are not respected. I think men have a greater need to be in control, it's in their competitive nature, probably something to do with testosterone levels. I don't have that need, I get far more satisfaction from making him happy than I do from winning an argument.