Is it normal to have no desire to have sex... but i still have crushes on boys?

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I am an 18 year old girl. My friends and a lot of kids that I know, kids in my grade, kids who are younger are having sex. I've even heard eighth graders and freshmen talking about casual hookups and what not.
I think to myself well, I cannot see myself losing my virginity...simply because I have no desire to have sex at all. I have never been in a relationship. I have had to turn down a lot of guys in the past because I don't feel like having sex. This is an ongoing thing. I feel like I am the only one and possibly anti-social? I don't know!
I do not think that anyone is good enough to lose my virginity to anyway. I want to be in a relationship but I feel that this aspect of me not wanting to ever have sex would ruin the relationship. I have a few crushes on some really hot guys that are very nice and are really my type! I just don't want to have sex! I'm not a lesbian though because I am only attracted to men.
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  • Cookiecutter
    7 years ago

    Look up asexuality and AVEN

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  • Alysin
    11 years ago

    This is how I am too
    Except I'm a lesbian :P

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  • wannabeincomedy
    12 years ago

    Give it time and relax nature knows what its doing

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  • aduusw
    12 years ago

    Dont force it... When it comes it cones...I'm a guy btw... Sorry for my bad livee

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