Is it normal to have no desire of making friends with those of your own gender?

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I'm a girl. I really can't hold any female friends. I think I may actually deep down really hate most girls... just the way they are sometimes (catty, etc.). Overall I find girls generally very annoying.

I wouldn't really describe myself as a tomboy or anything though either. I'm actually quite terrible at sports and I like a lot of regular cutesy girl things, but I find that I have a lot of male tendencies such as playing a LOT of video games and generally being "a guy" (whatever that means)... And I guess I also have some male tendencies such as being pretty overtly/openly sexual and not shy about much.

I think another contributing factor is...I can only seem to make friends with guys. Namely, guys that either I'm attracted to or have some sort of chemistry with. Or at least, how it usually ends up is that all my friends I find attractive in some way. Don't get me wrong though, I usually always keep it at a friend status... but gosh darnit I guess friends who I don't have chemistry with just don't hold my attention for long...

I'm starting to think maybe I don't actually like having friends at ALL. >_> I'm 22 by the way...

Insight? Any other girl ever feel like this?

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  • rocket
    13 years ago

    Woman do not treat each outer the way they should

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  • khosmo2
    13 years ago

    I only held guy friends for a time as well. But I would take each person individually. Never shut a door. There are guys that are gossipy and judgemental and there are girls that are cool and laid back. I think it's normal to look for certain things in friends. Totally normal. Just be careful, some day you may need that more nurturing support from a girlfriend that a guy may have a harder time giving. =)

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  • linds13
    13 years ago

    I use to feel the same way in hs but it's because I was insecure. I felt inferior around girls but when I was boys they would give me extra attention because...well I'm a girl. I think it's slot healthier and just more fulfilling to have friends of the same gender as well. And just know with guys there is often underlying sexual tension and that shouldn't be the base of a friendship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Way normal women r all cunts, bitchy, unstable, backstabbers who will throw u under the bus at the first chance they get.

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  • machinenvy
    13 years ago

    I'm female and I have no close female friends. The few females I associate with are not girly-girls. I find most women annoying with their primping and preening and inane chatter about reality TV. But hey, that's just me. If you're into that sort of thing, more power to you! :)

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  • Driggdrawdrurg
    13 years ago

    I would say it's less normal than most, but still fairly common.

    I just like good people, whatever gender.

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  • amaterasu
    13 years ago

    my ex girlfriend was just like you... she said she hated girl because they are envious and judgeamental...

    you should try having friends of your own gender though... it is much more healthier, and well, there are just things that guys will never understand about you no matter what...

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    • Zonfire80
      2 years ago

      I can understand how she can’t relate to women as much as men, believe me I went to the same thing. The only reason I would even be friends with a girl is if she would date me. He he. Girls may be anoying but when it comes to sex it’s very enjoyable.

      - transman

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    13 years ago

    I'm the same, I think I'm a little too addicted to Call of Duty! But saying that, I do have a couple of female friends (although they aren't girly at all!) it's just sometimes nice to have a girls point of view on things. But I do think you're completely normal, don't worry =)

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    • Zonfire80
      2 years ago

      Call of duty is the shit

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    I don't think it's normal to only want people who you find attractive as friends. I prefer not to be attracted by a girl if i want to be friends. I guess it depends what kind of relation you want to have.

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  • Aether96
    13 years ago

    I'm a dude, but basically do the same thing you do, I much prefer girl friends to guy friends, totally normal

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  • sable13
    13 years ago

    I am pretty much the same way you are and view other girls the same as you do. The only difference is, I love
    Sports, getting dirty, etc.

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  • Jupiter
    13 years ago

    Me to a T. I despise the back-stabbing, two-faced, conniving, lying, manipulative, and fake gender known as the human female.

    When I find a girl who doesn't act one way infront of guys and another when they're gone, I generally friend them.

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