Is it normal to have multiple crushes and feel guilty?

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Okay, so I'm a guy and recently I had a crush on a girl that is a close friend for a while and then I met another girl (who is now also a pretty close friend) and had a crush on her as well at the same time. Neither of the girls are aware of this and we are nothing more than friends right now. I still kind of feel the crush on both of them at the same time. Some days I wish I was in a relationship with one more than the other, and they change all the time. Is this normal? I feel shallow and guilty about it since i change back and forth all the time between liking them.

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  • lilmetoo
    12 years ago | pl

    Of you really likes the first girl you wouldn't have fallen for the second
    If you have feelings for both then tell them how you feel and see if they understand

    At least you haven't done anything yet right?.....

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    12 years ago | pl

    lol i was like that im senior year in high school like every 2 weeks it woudl change.. YOU JUST DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.....

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  • Donnie3423
    2 years ago | pl

    You're not in a relationship with either of them so I don't see why you should feel bad. Ask them both out

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    In the back of your head, you just want to have fun. Try to do that without lying to them or hurting their feelings.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago | pl

    The more, the merrier! You are young and entitled to multiple dating and not getting serious or settling down.

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