Is it normal to have made my boyfriend stop during sex twice now?

I'm 18, white, really thin (naturally) and I'm with a 21-year-old black guy. I was a virgin when I met him, and after a while we started thinking about sex. I totally trust him, and I do really want to have sex, but it hurts so much... like a lot more than most people seem to describe first-time sex as. Plus, I've never actually fully let him in, as it hurts so much, and I bleed. So, yeah, is it normal to have made him stop twice now? I mean, he's really understanding, but I can't help but think he would be better off without me >.< ... Also any advice on getting him in would be appreciated.

PS. please don't humiliate me.
Thanks!

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  • I'm a 28 year old girl,I would buy a dildo the same size as your boyfriend. If you dont know how big he is ask him, every guy on earth knows. fuck yourself with it, when it stops hurting fuck your boyfriend's dick. i recommend the hustler store. get something around the same size or bigger, tell the sales person it's a joke present for a bachelorette party if you're embarrassed about masturbating like most 18 year old girls.

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  • It is normal I guess.. white tiny teeny pussy is not made for giant black dicks.. of course it will stretch and open up.. so be patient

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  • I know this post is old, but the same thing happened to me when I lost my virginity. My boyfriend is pretty well hung and I am very petite, so I also thought it was just a size issue at first. People on the internet told me the same things, be relaxed, well lubed, use a dildo... But out of fear from all of the blood (because it was like getting my period for an hour)and unbearable pain, I went to the doctor. Turns out starting a hormonal birth control pill or doing anything else that might change the conditions in the vagina can cause something called bacterial vaginosis. It's not an STD, just a temporary infection anyone can get like a yeast infection. I got prescribed a medicinal gel and after a week could easily and comfortably take in my well hung boyfriend with no pain and lots of pleasure.

    Unfortunately, the romantic first time that we had planned with a nice dinner and the expensive honeymoon suite at the nicest hotel in town was practically ruined by all the blood and pain. And, we ended up *really* losing our virginities to each other on a twin bed in a crappy dorm room. But, hey, we're still together and enjoy a pretty great sex life.

    Hope this helps someone who might stumble across it.

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  • Use lotsa lube and top it off with sniffs of Poppers. It helps you to get into the mood and relaxes ur tight ass muscle. Try it and let me know if it works for ya. If not, I got other ways to teach you.

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  • Make sure you do a lot of foreplay before he tries to penetrate you, you have to be as relaxed as possible, you're likely tensing your muscles subconciously and that will make it more difficult.

    Do lots of touching and kissing before getting to the actual nitty-gritty.

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  • its ok. your going to get used to it after a while.

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  • FAKE!

    This is just another one of those "Big Black Cock" jokes. LAME.

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