Is it normal to have made my boyfriend stop during sex twice now?
I'm 18, white, really thin (naturally) and I'm with a 21-year-old black guy. I was a virgin when I met him, and after a while we started thinking about sex. I totally trust him, and I do really want to have sex, but it hurts so much... like a lot more than most people seem to describe first-time sex as. Plus, I've never actually fully let him in, as it hurts so much, and I bleed. So, yeah, is it normal to have made him stop twice now? I mean, he's really understanding, but I can't help but think he would be better off without me >.< ... Also any advice on getting him in would be appreciated.
PS. please don't humiliate me.
Thanks!