Is it normal to have lost my virginity to a man twice my age?

I was legal (don't worry). He was a swim coach from a neighboring team when I was on swim team at school. It was incredible, but we had to share our love in utmost secret, for obvious reasons. Anyone else have an experience like this?

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  • normalornot999

    Very normal. I wish more young girls would understand that older men can provide a much better experience, especially for a first time. Older men are usually much less selfish and more into giving YOU a great time, not just getting their rocks off in 30 seconds and leaving.
    When I'm with a young (legal) girl I treat her like she's a Queen or Princess and it's my goal to show her the best time she's ever had!

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    • boygemini

      Yes. And yes! Same goes for same sex relationships.

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  • kariann789

    It's completely normal. I was 18 and my first was in his late 40's. Our relationship was also completely unplanned but ended when I got tired of hiding everything from my friend and her mother.

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    • boygemini

      I had to keep it in complete secrecy as well. I was 17, but we didn't consummate the relationship until a week after my 18th birthday. It was incredible, tender and passionate. He was twice my age.

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  • Couman

    Petty common I would think. I can see both sides, but I think there's something to be said for having your first time with someone more experienced.

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    • boygemini

      It was unplanned. But it turned out to be the most wonderful six month affair.

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  • Ivory200

    if it felt right to you then that's all that matters

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  • Ivory200

    Our the obvious reasons that you are so much younger than him? Is he married?

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    • boygemini

      No. Not at the time. He was single, and closeted gay when we were lovers. All the girls had crushes on him, but I was teacher's pet, if you get my drift.

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