Let me clear. It is correct that before wedding night I had never seen boner. That night it was not my remotest intention. Neither my husband had it in mind to see my nude body. He actually explained why lights should be on. His purpose was to remove even the slighest element and point of shame between us. It was a wedding night but between two friends. We were not alien to each other but also never close and friendly. My background was conservative and religious, he was bit liberal. By celebrating wedding night in light he wished me to tell that coservatism and shame on my part needed to be replaced with openness and frankness like friends. The subsequent period helped a lot to change my mind. I found no inhibition shame or reservation in staying nude even in day light and shared all sorts of sex play with him.
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IIN to have first time sex when lights are on?
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Let me clear. It is correct that before wedding night I had never seen boner. That night it was not my remotest intention. Neither my husband had it in mind to see my nude body. He actually explained why lights should be on. His purpose was to remove even the slighest element and point of shame between us. It was a wedding night but between two friends. We were not alien to each other but also never close and friendly. My background was conservative and religious, he was bit liberal. By celebrating wedding night in light he wished me to tell that coservatism and shame on my part needed to be replaced with openness and frankness like friends. The subsequent period helped a lot to change my mind. I found no inhibition shame or reservation in staying nude even in day light and shared all sorts of sex play with him.
Hope it in now clear