Is it normal to have feelings for the same gender best friend

I have feelings for my best friend who happens to be of same gender , I don't know whether he likes me in that way or not , i am afraid if i make a move then everything would get end between us and i don't want that

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  • Tell him straight up. If he don't reciprocate, then y'all can still be friends. The key to still bein friends is to just not make it awkward. As your best friend, he shouldn't feel the need to de-friend you. I don't know how close y'all are, so I don't know how much it would hurt, but that's just what I did. I'll admit, it's kinda ballsy, so you can do whatever you feel, but I also felt so much better afterwards. And if he likes you too, then well done, soldier.

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  • You can just ask him if hes ever thought of or wanted to have another guys cock in his mouth or his hands or many options actually.

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  • Start with having a discussion about sexual genders and find out if they are accepting of all the various sexuality in general; and if they are open to the possibilities you are interested in.

    If things go decently in the conversation you can mention your interest and feelings. That does not mean it will progress; but, at least your friend should be able to acknowledge them and tell you if they are interested or not, or would have to think about potentially experimenting in that regard.

    I wish you the best in this,

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  • Make a move, you’ll only regret it if you don’t. It’s better to potentially gain a boyfriend or fuck buddy at the risk of losing him as a friend than to never make a move.

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  • Not enough info for us to make a judgement, does he act like this is mutual?

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