Is it normal to have anal sex and then before ejaculation pop the penis in the

Sorry hadn't space for all in the heading
My question is is it normal to have anal sex and then just before ejaculation slip it out (as if by accident)and slide it into the vagina just to annoy the partner
My partner and I often argue, I have arguments so sometimes I give in knowing there will be make up sex. Then often as my partner thinks she has gotten her own way she will let me have my own way and we have anal. This is usually quite violent , we like it like that, and what I do just to get back at her because md the argument is just before I ejaculate slide it out and into the vag just for the glory strokes. This really winds her up because she can get infections or pregnant but when I do it I know it is actually me who has won.