Is it normal to have a crush on your best friend but afraid to date her?

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i have known my best friend since we were 5 years old and now I'm 19. About a year ago I've started to like her and I've found out she likes me too. The problem is that I'm afraid to go out with her because I'm afraid to ruin our 14 year friendship if anything bad happens. Is it normal??

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    Yes, of course it's normal. You have a lot to lose. But you also have a lot to gain. Only you can answer this question. Good luck!

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  • DateAdviceJohn
    12 years ago | pl

    Sometimes you gotta risk it for the biscuit. For a lot of reasons it would be an amazing relationship. You have so much in common it would work out awesomely! Only thing that could ruin it all is if there are lies. Good Luck.!

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  • Danielle:)
    11 years ago | pl

    I had that problem with my best guy friend too, I'd say take the chance because you guys are both waiting for it to happen ;) so go for it! You have so much to gain. do what feels right :)

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  • nobodyspecial
    11 years ago | pl

    Go for it, friends usually end up as the best couples. As the song says...'how can we be lovers if we cant be friends'

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  • dirty_girl
    12 years ago | pl

    Yes u Need to do this But I also agree with dappled

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  • Raa
    12 years ago | pl

    Good ahead and ask her out I not you might regret it later.

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  • paradoxinsoxs
    12 years ago | pl

    Take a chance.

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  • IHaveIssuesWithMyMother
    12 years ago | pl

    Imagine losing the friendship...

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