Is it normal to have a crush on a younger guy and think of him almost everyday?

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Okay, so here's the thing:
I have this big crush on a guy who's younger than me. I dunno the age gap (2 or 3 years, probably)but I'm pretty sure he's younger 'coz he's still studying while I, on the other hand, graduated last year and I'm already working.
We first met in the internet cafe my uncle owns. When I see him I always have the butterflies in my stomach especially when he smile and jokes around with me and at other times compliments me.
And then recently I haven't seen him for weeks. I get so anxious. There's not a day that I forget thinking about him.
What's more surprising is that I rarely even know the person (I only see him like once or twice a month and sometimes never) yet there's a feeling that I know him that much already.
It's even driving me crazy when I try to picture his face in my mind but can't. This is maybe because i don't see him a lot so my mind can't really register his face.
Anyhow, is this normal or am I being too obsessed?

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  • kitkatbar
    12 years ago | pl

    Until now Ive never dated a younger guy than a couple months but my boyfriend is three years younger, hes awesome so far, go for it, but just rmember that girls mature faster than guys and you need to give him a little lee way to catch up in maturity so a little patience and understanding will go a long way in this situation.

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  • hahaha...betterlearnfromakid!
    11 years ago | pl

    yea same here with the guy already being taken, except my guy made a deal with his friend involving "older women" and im younger than him

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  • Dizzee
    12 years ago | pl

    It's normal. I have a crush on a younger guy too (and he's surprisingly mature for his age), but he's already taken.
    I don't think that's obsession (unless you cut his hair and keep it or something), but it's sweet.

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    • starspell36
      12 years ago | pl

      oh, too bad. I'd feel terrible if I found out my crush's already taken haha :P

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      • Dizzee
        12 years ago | pl

        Yeah, it's quite sad, but it happens. What's worse is when I have a crush on a SINGLE guy and he ends up getting a girlfriend in the next week. It happened to me like... five times now.

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