Is it normal to have a crush on a male and a female colleague at the same time?

What it says.

Not a serious obsessional crush, just *chemistry*, mutual eye contact, mutual smiling, tongue-tied awkwardness alternating with long, interesting conversations, etc.

It's just not the kind of situation I hear people talking about every day, like crushing on two guys at once, or on two girls at once.

Is this considered weird by a lot of people?

Is It Normal?
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  • You are bi enjoy

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  • Not terribly normal imo but not worthy of concern either.

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  • This is a pretty unfortunate situation, but yes. Totally normal if you're bisexual.

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  • It's not weird it's just human nature. A lot of people have had the same feelings.

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  • Meh, normal. People casually date multiple people at the same time it’s not weird to have a little chemistry with more than one person.

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    • I know they do. That's not what I'm talking about though. It's 'will it appear weird to like two people of different genders'.

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  • I've had crushes on multiple people at the same time. It's definitely relatable! Hell, I've had crushes while in past relationships! I would do nothing about them except let that thought run its course, and the crush eventually fades away.

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  • You are bi?

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  • Not a huge deal. Maybe think about focusing on work and you'll get over it.

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  • Normal. Happened to me before.

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